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01-10-09
We got to Trinity a little bit after 10pm so we had to pay, boooo!!!
After getting in there and finding out that are friends were not there we decided to get a red bull (We stay away from drinking during Sarging) my wing Hojo18 opened a set and I listened in from the side. The leader tested him hard core but he did a good job brushing her off. I'm not sure way but I had a little AA, even after doing day game a few hours before hand. I located a 3 Set, all Asian and a solid CB7. They we’re all leaning over the railing looking do at the DJ in the Techno Room. I came in on the left side with my wing of the right and opened.
Opener:
PUA: Hey how are you guys doing?
CB: we’re doing fine
PUA: OMG your so cute... If I was not gay you would be so mine!!!
CB: Hehehe, talks to her friends in Vietnamese.
From there we talked a little bit and I came around to the right and let my wing come in to set. I introduced myself to the other two girls and we all talked for a bit. It just so happed that it was there first time at trinity. We showed them upstairs to the bar were we all got Red Bulls (they paid for there own of course and asked if we wanted anything but we told it’s was cool we got it). After this we showed them, downstairs to where they could check-in there coats. The line was pretty long so we pulled them to the dance floor. From there was started to dance a little bit. My target was REALLY shy so I decided to take it slow and start Kino escalation. After about 15 minutes they started to cut lose and dance more, in 10 more minutes I was holding her from behind and we were grinding. We had to protect them from all those creepy AFC’s at try so hard to come up and dance with girls. During the dancing I did complaints testing and Kino escalation. At one point Hojo18's target went to the bathroom, and the other two stayed with us dancing. This all went on for about 1.5 hour.
We then decided that it was best if we moved upstairs to sit down. We lead them by the hands upstairs to a suitable location for comfort building. I found it really easy for it to make a connection with them because I’ve been to Vietnam a Few times back in my AFC days. I did a few routine gave her complement then did the beauty in common routine and talked small talk. (We also number closed then some around here) My wings target had to work in the morning and at one point there was talk of them leaving having to leave. We asked them if they wanted to go get something to eat at first they said they were not very hungry. A little bit later two of our friends came and we introduced them to the group. We all talked for some time then are friends went back to dancing. A little bit after they decided that they wanted to go eat with us.
From trinity we walked to purple dot in china town, when we got there its turns out they really weren’t very hungry because they barely touched there food. We shared stories and I did the photo routine with my itouch.(We were here for just about two hours talking). The two friends they met early join us about half way thru the. We finished up and walked back to the cars. I told her kiss goodbye pointing to my cheek at that point she kiss me on the cheek.
Texting
The next day I received a forwarded text from my Hojo18 saying the following:
Good Morning Art, pls help me tell your friend that my friend miss him hehehehe.
I had him pass along back to her that I was looking forward to seeing her friend again.
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Over all I’m really proud on how the interaction went I learned a lot and hojo18 and me worked really well together to accomplish are goal. I had to leave a lot of the interactions out and did much best to hit all the key points.
1-14-09
We talked on the phone for a bit. I wont be able to see her this weekend because she has to goto Vietnam to visit her mom because she sick. She told me that she misses me and in return I told her that I missed her to. About 20 minutes later I texted her telling her good night and she returned a text with the following.
I am happy today. I got messages good night see you soon. Chao Anh. Nho Anh Nhieu. Hon Anh Nhe! I know that Chao Anh basically means goodbye sweety but my wing asked his target what it ment and she said it means "I'm missing you alot"!
As long as I do not get attached to an outcome this should go very well. I'll try the Mystery kiss close next time i see her I'm sure she is ready for the kiss and I probably could of done it last Saturday. Well be going out this weekend with her friends, this kind of limits me on gaming other girls but I don't mind to much as long as I can get alot of day game in.
1-16-09
Tonight was a very difficult night for me, I really did my best to push myself out of my comfort zone. I used alot of direct game, I was able to go in direct without any warm up sets. This in a huge step forward for me because I was only able to go more direct when I was in the Zone. It was my first time going to this venue so I didn't really have time to get used to the environment. I opened 4 sets and ejected from all of them, why because I was scared shit less tonight!!!
tonight the lesson that I learned was that even thought its hard I have to keep pushing myself to the limit and beyond, because its the only way I'm going to better myself. I remember back when I had AA big time, it was nearly impossible for me to open sets. I know that I've come a long way from being a complete AFC to what I am now.
01-17-09
So last night was very interesting, let’s just say that I learned a lot for now so here it goes
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Night started out kind of weird, when we we’re at the mall working on day game I got a call from the girl that I was with last weekend. On that call she established that she misses me and she also said I love you as well. But she was unable to go out tonight from reason posted early. When we met with the other two girls by trinity and walked to China Town to get something to eat. It was there that they told me in more detail what was going on with her. They basically said that she got back with her old boyfriend; I was thinking well WTF is up with this girl calling me on the phone and saying these things. It was established that maybe she likes me more than her Boyfriend. But I thought you know what fuck it I’m going to change targets to the other girl. This was my mission for the night, after eating we went to trinity and had ourselves a drink and then made our way to the dance floor.
There I started with Kino escalation. I used small test along the way and it didn’t take that long for me to have my hands on her hips. I used spin moves a few times to amp in the fun and attraction, I was also very stand out last night. I ended up turning her around and it was around there that I started getting small IOI’s back. I pick her up one or two times and she loved that. She grabbed my hand a few times and my hand was right underneath her breast. I got the feeling that she wanted me to touch it so I put one had on her breast and continued to dance with her. Afterworlds I started getting heavy IOI’s and As the night went on there was a lot of heavy petting, after dancing we went upstairs to rest and have a drink.
They paid for the first round so hojo18 and I got the second round. We all sat down after getting the drinks and talked. She whispered into my ear, “Do you like me?” Making sure to keep my cool I told her “I don’t know. By this time she was very affectionate towards me we talked a bit and after we all finished are drinks. We all started down stairs to the dance floor, but I decided that it was time for me to isolate her and I brought her to the enclosed seated area downstairs. We we’re really getting into each other at that time and we started making out. I was feeling her breast from underneath her shirt and she was also rubbing up and down in all the intimate areas. She was really, really! Into me I could tell that. After spending some more alone time together we started back to the dance floor and danced more together. This went on and off back and forth for the rest of the night. At the end of the night we walked the girls to their car and hugged and kissed them goodbye.
Tonight’s lessons are as follows:
1. International women are easy to game, even if there is big or small English barrier.
2. Like the song says “Girls just wanna have fun” they loved to be picked up, spun around, and all those other little things you can do with them to amp up the fun and attraction.
3. Experience outweighs youth, most guys look for an 18-25 year old girl, and however this girl is about 10 years older than me. Around 35 years old but she does look young for her age and has a GREAT body.
4. Shy girls and more traditional Asian women will tend to be a bit more turned off at first, but as long as you have solid game there is not going to be any problem with them opening up. Just be ready for it when they do……..
01-18-09
Tonight we met with Hojo18 target at Oasis, she’s a really interesting and fun to be around. My target was not able to make it due to this being spire of the moment. I learned that my target does have two kids and that they are around 13 or so years old. Both girls are divorced and their dream is to marry a white guys (I'm very white). I found out more about her and as far as things go we seem compatible and there is strong attraction. We have been texting back and forth thought the day; we and hojo18 are working on setting up another date.
01-21-09
Last night we met the girls at one of their houses, and we watched a movie (Watching a movie rightttttttttt) We ended up laying down with each other and as the night went on things were really starting to heat up. I could tell that she really wanted me but it was getting late and she had to get home (damnit). I don't believe it was LMR because she was definitely not resisting. If anything only adding to the experiences. I told her that i wanted her and she in return said the same and told me Saturday. It looks like the only issue was that we we're not alone. ether way I'll be seeing her again this Saturday, I'll try and isolate her then. This seems promising because its easily developing into a LTR.
But until then I'll being sarging this Friday at the Parlor, see you there!
Lesson
Tonight's lesson is having a car is very impotent! That is why I'm getting one with my taxes.
01-24-09
We itinerary for tonight has been broken down to the following preplanned events:
1. Meeting at there place so we could be the driver (IE have control of the environment)
2. Driving them to Acme Bowling to eat and meet a friend.
3. Driving to a lookout point at Alki to watch a DVD
4. Heading to best western Inn near pioneer square.
We met the girls this evening at my Hojo18's targets new place, we took a van there because of its roominess. We had every single detail preplanned for this evening down to having our hotel reservations and making sure that the transition could go smoothly, the Van was setup with blankets because who does not keep blankets in there Van just in case? We stopped off to get some gas and I ran in to get some drinks, when I came back to the van the sweet aroma of perfume was all around me.
After picking them up we drove down to Acme bowling in Tukwila, on the way I gave her a traditional Vietnamese new Years gift something that she was very happy to receive (Traditional Food and candy). When we arrived at Acme we all had ourselves a zombie and something to eat. My friend arrived a little bit after we had gotten our food we introduced them all and he went on and ordered a drink and food as well. During the meal there was mutual Kino escalation and she was spoon feeding me throughout the meal. This all was quickly moving towards seduction so we decided to skip out on bowling and we went directly to the lookout spot located at Alki beach. From there we got in the back seat and I turned on the movie but she made it clear not to far into it that she was not interested in watching a movie, of course that was cool with me because the movie was only meant to be a tool. We started to get very close and touching heavily. I started to fingered her and sucking on her breast she unbuttoned my pants and pulled out my dick and started to rub in and to the best of her ability's with the limited space that we had she went down on me. I'm not sure how long this had been going on but at one point my wing who was upfront with his girl doing his thing said to me that that he thinks that its time that we go, After the third time he said it I responded by saying then lets go! I was kind of busy.
We started me move to the next location the hotel, I don’t think they had any idea what we had in mind we played it cool and after parking my target said it was too cold and she didn’t want to get out. We told them that it’s ok because the place is near by. We walked them across the street and into the hotel where we proceeded to check-in. They new exactly what was going on and there was a very quit compliance in doing so. During the time that we we’re checking in they looked at a tourist manual. We took them up to the 4th floor and bid goodbye to hojo18 and his target and we moved to our room. It took about a minute for us to get in because the damn keycard reader would not work (So damn romantic.......) After we finally entered the room we shut the door, dropped our stuff and embraced warmly. She undressed me well I did the same afterwords she jumped in the shower for a quick 30 secs and we join each other in the bed. I'm never been with such a caring and giving women, in between our brakes she actually gave me a shower, not once but twice..... It’s very strange for me to be so well taken care of by a woman. She’s defiantly experienced and she treated me as her top priority that all night.
The lessons for tonight:
I think that the longer wait to bed in girl really takes away from any possibility relationship. It’s also not fair to the women that you’re gaming because just like every other guy out there they want to have sex to giving the opportunity. Waiting to long can also demonstrate that you’re not the kind of man who is willing to step up and you’ll definite lose any chance of developing a relationship with any women. On the other hand going in too soon could screw up any chances that you have with a women up especially if she resistances the F-Close. I believe that the 7 hour rule is good rule of thumb and should be followed in most of not all circumstance, but of course there are exceptions to this.
The total time that I’ve spent with this Woman is: 7 – 10 Hours before arriving at the hotel.
01-25-09
This evening I went with Hojo18 and our newest wing Blasian to Oasis, We had some bubble tea play a few games of pool, then we merged a set play pool with.
It was a slow night so I made it my mission to do a direct approach on every cute girl that walked in. I opened 4-5 sets total, the best set was these two Chinese girls I used the normal direct opener: OMG your so cute I just had to meet you…… If I was not gay you would so be mine, I asked for there names then I told them that I had to get back to my friends. After the interaction my wings told me that I was getting a lot of IOI’s I could not see because I was not looking at there direction. After they got there drinks they sat near us and I reopened by telling them that I felt so bad for not introducing them to my friends. They said they we’re 18 and I told them that they looked 27. I asked there nationality and as you already know they said they were Chinese, I wished them happy new years and asked how long they have been in the USA.
They said that they had been here for 4 months and I accused them on coming to American to find a guy so they could get married and stay. I joked with them about there clothes and told one of them that they had the cutest little teeth, they responded by saying vampire teeth and I told her that I could tell she was a blood sucker. I demonstrated value by taking about how we just took our girlfriends out for Vietnamese new years last night and I used was the number routine, I guess both of her numbers right and she was like “OMG how did you do that? Do it to her to!!! I brushed off the comment and moving onto another topic.. My Hojo18 approached and entered the set perfectly. We talked more and the only problem was that I was unprepared for ant number close routines. I told them that we should hang out and I asked for her number but my phone was dead I didn’t have access to a pin and paper at the time so I decided not to push the topic. My wing left and not to long later and I bid them goodbye telling them that I had to rejoin my friends.
Lessons learned tonight
There is something very powerfully convened to women when you’re the kind of guy who is comfortable around women. They are very good at picking up on these little things and can tell who is getting some and who is not. I have found that right now I’m able to say something just as simple as hello to girls and they light up now. I think that the most important game that a guy can work on is his own inner game and then everything else will fall into place. If you don’t approach directly, do it, if your uncomfortable doing direct game then do it anyways. It does wonders for your inner game.
01-26-09
After the Gym I convinced my wings we should goto Oasis to play a few games of pool and open every single girl we see. I went direct on all 5 out of 6 sets, I didn't hook any sets tonight but can be expected going direct. I negged the girls who were not friendly, and brushed them off. my wing told me he was getting a weird vibe from the room. I made it clear to him that I didnt care when I said to him then fuck them!
I was friendly and communicated with everyone guy and girl that I saw. Even the more bitchy girls who worked there started to opened up because I had befriended on of her male coworkers.
This will be my last report as far as my current girl goes because as of today she is now officially my girlfriend. However in no way do I intend to give up PU, I will write my current experiences on how I was able make it happen with an older woman.
Forgive me if my grammar is bad, I was didn’t get home until 1:30Am because we we're in the back seat of her car.
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01-29-09
Sarging this woman had its challenges because of an English barrier between us, but it was very fruitful in rewards. I’ve gained so a great deal of experience gaming this girl, in order to Sarge her I’ve had to have a strong frame and lead her. I didn’t pay for anything until it was our 3rd time seeing each other, we all split the bill until then. Non-verbal communication was the key to everything. This is something that can be applied to all Sarges because it’s just so powerful to use your actions and lead them. Doing very simple things like protecting them on the dance floor from creeps. Kino escalation was one the biggest key, I had to test, test, and test again. Doing little things like picking them up, spinning them around, and playful hitting your target was also important.
If you’re having fun they can’t help but follow, whatever I used to open her does not matter because it was just a means to an end. Women want to feel good and be protected; it’s up to us to make that happen. Looking back at myself when I found the community 1.5 years ago, I was a total AFC, I had married a Vietnamese girl who was living in Vietnam and brought her to this country. No matter how bad she treated me I would just take it because I was scared of losing her. Inside my mind this was as good as it get and I was lucky to get this. When it was all said and done she left me, that’s when I found the community. Now after doing approach after approach and studying like a mad man everything is finally all starting to become clearer then it ever has been. I can easily walk up to woman directly and tell HEY YOUR CUTE! I approach all kinds of sets now and with each one I learn more about myself, who I am as a person, and just what I’m looking.
One piece of advice that I would advise everyone to do is to take the time and write down in details what’s important to you in a relationship and just what kind of girl you’re looking for. Don’t hold back because it’s the key to finding someone who you really enjoy mentally, physically, and emotionally. I believe that the whole Idea of the community is to find real love and not to have just some kind of score with how many women you’ve slept with. So from now on I will continue PU well starting my first LTR since I join the community.
01-31-09
I went to Bellevue mall today, after grabbing something to eat with a few friends in order to test myself I dress all the way down wearing only a white tee shirt and simple jeans. Because most women in Bellevue are so damn bitchy, it made things interesting.
Over the past two days I’ve had very little sleep so in its self this was not helpful. I was only blown out once today and that was going direct on a very dressed up Japanese girl. Each set I approached was challenging today, to makes things more interesting I’ve been working on a few new openers that I made up earlier in the week.
PUA: Hey guy, I’ve got a quick question… How long do you think a guy should wait until he tells a girl that he loves her? (The girls seem to love this)
HB: blah, blah, blah
This opener is very powerful but the only problem is that it seems to become directed towards yourself, you could always go into something like “OMG! I totally love you” and role play but I haven’t try this yet. After pushing myself I decided to push myself further and went to Victoria Secrets, from there I opened three sets using situational openers. It’s almost Valentines Day so it made things easier, I decide to try something different so I went unto a worker and asked her.
PUA: This may be a weird question but, how do you know what size to get a girl?
HB worker: Well what size shirt is she?
PUA:She wears a small shirt but she’s not small sized.
She gave some me some really good advice and also showed me a few of the newest sexy things and gave advice on what to buy a girl. I asked her about perfumes and lotions, and she directed me to someone who could help me better with this. It was very helpful in becoming comfortable, my wing got a few things, but I ended up passing because I’m currently broke and I was more interested in working on my game then buy gifts for my girlfriend.
01-01-09
Today my Cousin came up for California so we took him to Oasis we’re we played pool, had a drink and of course opened sets. I was able to refine one of my newest openers to the following:
PUA: Hey guy, I’ve got a quick question… How long do you think a guy should wait until he tells a girl that he loves her?
HB: blah, blah, blah
Then I throw in an interesting story, a little twist on drunken I love you.
PUA: The reason I was asking is because the other night my friend got drunk and he told his girlfriend that he loved her, and then today he took it back…. I mean what’s up with that?
This seems to work well for me; I was able to open a few sets and transitioning flowed easily. I would ask some simple like what nationality are you? If I could already tell what nationality they are I would name it then move into a story, say something in there language, or notice something about them. All sets flowed smoothly today and I just had fun trying new things and pushing my limits. _________________ -47
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