Hey yall

last night I hit up HQ with a fellow pick up artist and his AFC mate (he was cool tho). and yeh, as usual, I was able to generate some rather obvious interest from a few places especially early in the night, but it seems, and as it always goes... by the time of the night that you bump into thoes same girls again theres some guy in the territory and it always looks as if hes doin a good job at it! which brings me to a question... how do you have it that shes so sold on you that the next guy doesnt even get a foot in?

Also, I was flirting with a worker there, alot of funny exchanges. I told her she was cute for an American which caused a jaw drop..lol, but yeh.. didnt escalate it and didnt feel as if i could. I didnt wanna be another guy hitting on her, i mean she felt my vibe but asking for a number may have broke it.

alot of sets were opened with things like "i need you guys to pretend to talk to me theres this creepy girl following me round the club", dont gtet me wrong, i think it is a great opener but i dont think i calibrated it well.. more often then not they would say it doesnt look as if anyon es following you and that would more or less be the beggining and end of the exchange. I also tried "hey, do i look like someone famous? I ask because I was in downtown and a tourbus stopped infront of me and all these japanese tourists wanted pics, and autographs and hugs" (obviously its said more fluent) generally replies to that were either laughs, or being told i look like the bad jim carrey in me myself and irene or just the cold shoulder to which one must grow accustomed. i think new openers are really needed though... also, i find i probably stay too long in comfurt, i have a hard time isolating targets in sets, and although i can do the thumbwars and fistpounds and everything... i still need work on Kino. I actually even had approach Anxiety at times which is a demon i thought i slayed! im hitting the place up again saturday and will be lookin to put ur advice to practice! peace!

and while its on my mind.. there was this girl who was kinda cute who was a mate of a mate.. she was talkin to me a bit .. playing around.. she made me eat a chip from her hand and ice out of her mouth she shoved into mine. ofcourse im sittin there thinkin IOI boi! but, she was playfully pushin round this lil asian dude and i really couldnt tell which one she was really leanin towards (jealousy plotlines as mystery would say haha). it came to the end of the night and she was droppin everyone home, i wanted to make some form of move but sein as there'd been a fair time between real flirting and then, i didnt know what to do. has someone got similar situation and a solution?

hit hq again tonigbht had a lot of potential but again having the same sticking points.. any help?