Ok, so here is the deal. One of my best friends is an extremely attractive female (HB9, one of the closest to a 10 I've ever seen). We'll call her Rebeca. Rebeca and I have always had somewhat of a strange relationship since both her and I have cheated on our boy/girlfriends with each other. We still occasionally sleep together and this past week she came out to visit LA in order to decide where she was going to move in order to pursue her acting/modeling career. In the past, she has always been a great wingman when we lived in the same city, not to mention that just walking into a bar/club with her is a sure way for me to get noticed.

So here is the problem. Tonight we were at a club and I was chatting up this HB8, a petite brunette with incredible green eyes and a soft-athletic physique that just oozed sex appeal. Rebeca was flirting with some guys by the bar in order to get drinks. Things were really looking good for me until Rebeca came back and quite literally scared my target away. Normally, she would have either not come (seeing that I was in control of the situation) or joined the conversation in her charismatic way helping the target feel more relaxed. Instead, she just stood silent next to me. My target immediately eyed Rebeca and then uttered some bullshit excuse as to why she had to go back to her friends. Rebeca simply walked off towards the dance floor as if nothing had happened. I was pissed and confronted Rebeca, who told me that I was crazy if I thought she was a cock-block.

Have any of you experienced similar situations while sarging with an attractive female wingman? If so, how did you remedy the problem? Should I have gone after my target knowing that the excuse was bullshit? I clearly thought that the target was intimidated by Rebeca, but how could I have confronted her about this without embarrassing her? Thanks in advance

dude. who cares about embarrasing her. i have a lady friend that does the same shit. literally just walking up and making conversation intimidates other girls. she just has that body/personality to do so. it's like a natural woman's instinct to scare away other chicks. actually... i have several lady friends that i refuse to go to the bar with because of this shit. it doesn't matter if they have boyfriends, or anything, they always act the same way. women are so damn competative. Their mentality is, "well i know im not going home with him, so no one else will either."

I have had nothing but back luck sarging with these chicks. Especially because these "wing"girls are hotter than the chicks i'm sarging. I mean, what does a HB7 think when a HB9 comes up and gives me a kiss on the cheek? It totally turns the HB7 off and they think, "greeeaaaaat...." Then it's like virtually impossible for me to recover because my "wing"girls follow me around all night.

I say call her out, get in a huge argument then have excellent make up sex. If you really like her, start dating.

oh and women will deny ANYTHING. Of course she said you're crazy for thinking she was a cock block. that's Reading Women 101.

i dont know...maybe i'll check back later and write more when i'm not drunk. nighty night.

Stop.

Right there, you should know that this girl is probably not a safe pivot. If you're going to use a girl to pick up other women, it ideally will be someone who has zero chance of getting jealous and cockblocking you (which is what it sounds like happened in your case).

Try a cousin, sister, or a friend's girlfriend.

If what you're doing is trying to get with Rebecca, you're on the right track. However, the title of your post is "Girl Wingman" so I assume that this is not the case.

My most effective use of pivots has been for the first 2-5 minutes after opening. Just let them assume that you're a couple, and get them to let their guard down until they've decided to like you. After I have generated comfort and rapport, I usually tell a story about my pivot's boyfriend to clarify that I'm single.

Thanks guys for the responses. Phillipsrep, I did infact confront Rebeca. We got into a huge argument and as you predicted the make-up sex was unbelievable . Mech, you make a good point. The thing is that in the past I have never had this problem with her, she is not a very jealous chick. I am definately not interested in pursuing her as I am quite happy with our current friend/FB situation. In the future I will reconsider taking her out sarging,BTW, I love your opening with a Pivot...good stuff.