| I normally don't post my field reports publicly, but this one really deserves it.
Noor, HB7
15/12/08
On the bus
Time:4:40-45pm.
Ok, so Biggi and I were on the bus talking about sarging with no words, somewhat idealistically. So I thought, what the hell.
Now this girl is asian, and I rated her a 6, but Harry (Kind of pivot, It's a she) rated her pretty highly so I'm calling her a 7.
I got the number close WITHOUT SAYING A SINGLE WORD!!! Ok, so why did this work? I still stuck to normal PUA principles, just without words.
I approached confidently, without looking at her. Then I stopped beside her. The bus was pretty full but there was a spare seat near her. I stared down at her whilst keeping my head up and smiled (DHV stare), whilst point to the seat.
The point was not to ask permission, but rather to be bold and create interaction. I knew I had to create interaction, without pecking or DLV'ing with my body language.
So I sat down. I pretended to converse with her with my hands and eyes...in a funny and lighthearted manner...she was laughing and asking why I wasn't talking...then I stopped all of a sudden and gave her a really serious seductive look.
I should add, when I sat down I sat down with my palms up. This signifies honesty to her unconscious. I have nothing to conceal.
we held it for a good few moments but then I lost it. I should have quit first. I did a palm reading of myself without saying anything. I then held out my hand open to take hers...she gave it willingly (IOI), and did a palm reading for her. I then closed her fist, finger by finger, seductively, and making sure i was leading (attraction switch).
I then put her fist on her lap and turned away. Freeze out.
The next minute or so was push/pull with kino and non-verbal conversations. I didn't open my mouth once, only to smile. I talked with my hands and body.
I then showed her my phone background (an ugly man, my favourite poet), and motioned a thumbs up or thumbs down. Obviously she gave thumbs down. I pointed at her, waited and built tension, then smiled and gave a thumbs down. (False disqualify).
I then gaver her my phone on the contacts page, and changed the alphabet keys to number keys (phone). She understood, but said that she had a boyfriend.
I motioned towards my heart, and then gave a thumbs down. I shook her hand twice, and made some other crazy signs. Did some push pull, then grabbed her shoulder and smiled again. I then motioned towards the phone palm up.
She put her number in. She got it wrong and changed it again (it's touch screen so she pressed it wrong lol).
At the end she said "here, just another number to add to your list".
I responded by shaking my head (it was time to qualify, I was in comfort), and squeezing her shoulder and giving her a knowing, qualifying look. She smiled and I walked off.
SUCCESS! Body language owns baby =).
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