sarging sucked tonight...

this happens 4 times in a row:

i talk to the obstacle, she likes me a little bit too much and before i know i'm stuck with her. (the HB target blows me off because she is so happy for her obstacle-friend that she finally found someone.... plus she might think that i am below her level because i seem to like uglier girls)...

know the feeling?

now what the hell is going wrong here?

showing too much interest in the obstacle??

What i would say that's wrong here is that, you are possibly spending waay too much time with the obstacles. It takes a few minutes to get in good with the obstacle, most times they are more socially inclined from being in the friend zone that if you talk to them most of those girls are easy to talk and get along with. And don't think of it as a bad thing if the obstacle thinks you're cute. I flirt with obstacles all the time, but it doesn't mean I'm going to get with them. They say an alpha male isn't just liked by the woman of interest, but by all women.

So once you get in good graces, say, who did you all come with?? She'll say who she's with, then say introduce me to them. She'll be more than welcome to show her buddies to good company and you should be in there from there cause she'll introduce you to all her hott friends. So if you work the set and get your target into you, that very same obstacle will even encourage her hott friend to sleep with you. And what better way for a girl to hook up with an awesome guy that's been introduced by a friend instead of a random guy approaching her off the street.

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I made the mistake of being charming and handsome... I apologize