It's 11PM and I am replaying in my head tonight's catastrophe.

I was in a STRONG C1 stage starting to KINO with this really interesting and beautiful girl. (She was an 8!) She was giving me IOIs left and right and I was just felling like it was time to Kiss escalate and # close.

My best friend (a girl) comes over and begins to put me down for no reason.

The girl I had isolated noticed what was going on and she took a bathroom break. I talked to my friend while we were alone and told her to STOP and she didn't get it and continued. (I think she had to much to drink or was getting jealous) Afterwards the girl comes back from the bathroom she was just in a COMPLETELY different mood and ignores me.

Girls are everywhere and I am not going to kill myself over this but my female friend knew what I was up to and tried to embarrassed me.

I'll talk to her tomorrow to get this out of my chest.

Am I doing the right thing by trying to reconcile with her?

is she your best friend or girl friend? Why would she cock block you? If shes your best friend maybe you should explain situation and get her working with you

sounds like your "friend" was getting jealous. let us know what she says when you talk to her about it.

This morning I went shopping with my friend and a girlfriend of hers and we talked about it.

She explained that she was trying to complement me by sayings things like: "You are trying too hard to impress, we like you the way you are" "You don't need to dress good to get this girl" or "You don't have to prepare you apartment for any girl" etc...

I explained that while it is important to keep an open line of communication between friends, there are times when you can cross the line and get TOO personal when we are really only trying to having fun. I also explained that from MY perspective her comments came off as if I was being phony.

While she didn't apologize directly she admitted to be embarrased about what happened.

I think from here on she will understand a little better what it means to "play on my side" and not against me.

Tonight I will see the HB8 again and this other Colombian girl who I have heard is also very pretty and it is her birthday.

Any ideas on how to play on a girl's birthday?

By the way guys...that HB 8 that I was talking about just called my friend and told her that she wants to see me again tonight.

I guess all of yesterday's work wasn't lost so much as I thought.

I plan to Kino, Kiss and # and Time Bridge to a birthday party next week.

With me good luck!

good for you man, nice to hear of people getting somewhere. i went out tonight to a friend's party at a bar. i started off strong, but ended abysmal. im depressed, yet again. i have good game days and bad days, it's hit or miss.

Update: So my female friend picked me up at the house and we drove up to this sports bar were we were to meet with the HB 8 and this other guy friend of hers.

I wish I knew how I could have played this better but I couldn't performed as I planned.

As soon as I got there my eyes meet with the HB8 and and I get a great smile from her but just briefly. She was surrounded by 3 guys, 1 who was a childhood friend of hers and was KINOing her like crazy yet she was not paying attention to the KINO nor reacting to it. (I wish I knew how to describe this behavior but it seemed as if she was too used to it and didn't care)

The rest of the night I spent most of the time just in the Friend Zone with all the people we were with. She wasn't feeling like drinking either and seemed to be bored or mildly depressed. I couldn't see an opportunity to pull her away from her friend.

On the positive side, I got into the head space of observing the interactions of everybody. I could consciously identify when one guy was AMOGing the other, seeing other people throw NEGs at some girl and getting the right reaction and KINO tests.

I have just being practicing for about a month and I can already begin to appreciate the change of perception that is happening within me and I can only imagine how much greater this education if going to make me.

yeah ive been noticing body language a lot more too. two people can be across the room and you can usually get the gist of whats going on just by watching they're body language for a few mins. its pretty cool to be aware of this.