Cinnamon has a question.

Why is it that girl dancing alone is so damn unapproachable?
Better yet why is a girl dancing with a small group of friends (most of whom are hardly dancing) who has approached you previously, still so unapproachable?

As you may be able to tell Cinnamon’s night was a bit aggravating.
However it was not a total downer, I met the DJ who occasionally works at Funky Buddah and around the place so that’s some social proof and he
got me into Lucky 13 (which had an event for $15 cover) for free.

So here’s how my night went:

First off, turns out dirty pretty (the bar I WANTED to start at) isn’t open on Thursdays and didn’t feel like updating their website with that little tidbit. So I spent a good half hour in Chapters calling all my buddies and making sure we were all on the same page.
So then we headed to club 9, kind of new but I figured I’d try it out. So we go there, and I’m the ONLY girl, at 10. But I figure I’ll try it out. So I start dancing. I’m pretty well alone but I figure boys won’t mind dancing as long as there’s a girl to dance with.
Oh how wrong I was.
The boys noticed, they watched, but no one came to dance with me.
As my friends show up I get a few more people dancing with me, I figure social proof will help me.
Still nothing.
So I go to approach some sets. I’m Cinnamon, I do that.
First one I opena three/four-set with the “Are you guys Shy? I’ve been dancing alone for like ten minutes and you haven’t even come say hi.”
The answer….
“Yeah.”
Cinn: Really? Well, we’re broken up then, all three of us.
Boys: *laugh*
Cinn: I want my cats back and all My CDs.
Boys: *laugh*
Cinn: *gets bored and leaves*
So I dance some more, more friends show up. Still no approaches.
So I approach another four-set.
I opened by telling them my one friend sucked (he did). Because he wouldn’t dance with me and made a mockery of me.
They play along, I shift into my “If I were to give you a penguin” opener and he has no idea what to name the penguin. So I tell him we’re broken up and I want my CDs back, no matter how much he loves my Feist.
Boy doesn’t know what Feist is.
He says he’s catching up with a friend of his and he’ll come dance with me later. I tell him my friends and I are probably going soon-ish (We really were).
We stay longer, wait for the boys to work up some courage.

Aaaaand nothing.

Suffice to say Cinnamon encountered the Stupid Shield today.
No less annoying and no less aggravating than the Bitch Sheild.
The rest of the night was uneventful, the DJ really came and talked to us, showed a bit of interest but I never even got his name (My friend did though).

Please boys, help Cinnamon overcome the Stupid Sheild.

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I gave up trying to overcome the stupid shield a while a go, its why I was so disillusioned with club girls, the thing to think about is do you really want to get with a dumb ass, ass a PUA you should have choices.
In the end when I got to the point of hitting a stupid shield I would just leave before I felt the need to start handing out crayons and glittery things.

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