| Before I start just to let you no im going to be using speach marks to indicate the areas that i would like some feedback..
Getting ready to go out im thinking of the best possible way to play the game for the specific crowd,heres alittle insight,the people at this place are pretty younge say no one over the age of 21,when i go in to this (privert) party i already no roughly a quarter or so of the room so in some way theres socail proof and a safe spot although and i say that because the people that were givening me my social proof were happy amongst there selfs,they wasent really interested in making conversation else were....means more for me,right....... let me back this back abit, my intentions as from when i walk in was smiles and being friendly to everyone,I wasent pre-selected as i was walking in with 3(afc) guys BUT as soon as I get in the party the girls i no are greeting me and given my hugs ''handled that with some one liners wile rolling off and stoping to talk to the other guys there that i no''.Im just not sure what to talk about in the moment that gives value when it comes to girls,guys i just shoot the shit and dont care although some guys with higher value i.e the dj dont appley, its normally just a hello but talking to the d.j or other highered guns im sure will take care of its self as soon as i start to beome interesting and entertaining to girls,which brings me to having women handled and not careing,good right.so now after i finish up with the entrance i head to the bar on my own theres this hb8 that i kind of no,she opens me with a hi my response was hellllllo your very creative.... for being from another planet(fancy dress)(mehow opener),i tell her to give me her hand and i give her a spin,she comes back round and asks the question what am i doing with my self these days,interupted on my behalf,so i say to her hold that thourght and start talking to the interuption tryed bringing the other girl into the conversation,turning out she wasent really that interested in taking part in the conversation so I turn back towards the hb8 and answered her question with some verry afc coming out of my mouth wile showing that im complieing with her and shes controlling the frame,"answering questions before i convay value what do you guys think about this one"
Anyhow.... i noticed after i tryed to open a few sets with a few caned openers i wasent even getting a response,I was never really standing around on my own looking like billy no mates,so after a few failed openers i try to add a complience test strait after then opener not even waiting for a response i go straight for some more kino but the girl resists,says something like you ant goner do anything with my hands are you..Although she was on the verg of given them to me but i turn around and start talking to someone else,"me accepting the hands after her comment is that showing needyness" i could of always said if you dont want to find out if your psychic then ok and see if she wins me back...this who psychi thing is just really the 4-7 game.. Ended up practiceing the kino pycic game with a few girls i no so i no it works i didnt have any more routeens after that so i justed played the natural game for the rest of the night,had a good time learned some dance moves but no win
I have two other questions actually after writing up and till now i no what they are, building socail proof in a room gives you opertunitys convaying to your target(s) your a happy go friendly guy but when comeing to build socail proof if it is a girl do you game them what do you talk to them about?hows this done and do you need to go around and talk to the hole room when your building it?
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