To make a long story short, me and my friends went out for some night game on Saturday and started at a bar. Alot of people were being stiff there so we decided to take our game to a club where people would be more responsive.

So we get to the club I open some sets on the Ground floor with small talk to get warmed up for when we get onto the dance floor which is upstairs. So we get upstairs and i notice a cake on the table and a chick dancing by herself

Me: Hey. whats that cake for is it someones birthday or anniversary?
Chick: Its my birthday I just turned (forgot how old she was)

and after she finished her sentance thats when i noticed a HB9 close to the wall and decided i wanted to try and game her before other guys took her. So i ejected with the i gotta catch up to my friends line (cause they were close to her) then danced my way over there then opened her.

Me: You guys here for the party?
HB9: Yeah im here with my friends (points to some other people sitting down)
Me: So they paied 5 dollars to sit down?
HB9: -Laughs a little- No they just arent drunk yet.
Me: Well guess they party cant begin till everyones drunk. You look like the cool one out of the group, Mind if we take a picture.
HB9: sure

so I hand my camera to my friend and he snaps a shot and i hate the way we look and i tell him to snap another and we end up taking like 3 pictures till we get to a good photo.

Me: you arent good at taking pictures arent you?
HB:(laughs) Sorry im not a good picture taker like you
Me: Its ok you'll learn
(We both laugh)
HB: I'll be right back im going to try to find the bathroom.
Me: You been here before? cause its hard to find anything with all these people here.
HB:I know! ive never been here before but i'll tell you when i come back.

So she leaves and I dance alittle with my friends and like after a few mins i notice her passing by me and making her way to the dance floor.

Me: You are so messed up
her: what did I do
Me: you were just about to walk pass me and not tell me where the bathroom is, what if I had to go really badly and my kidneys were about to explode any minute now
her:(laughs) sorry. Its (forgot where she said it was)
Me: No its too late now, I dont even have to go anyway
her: (laughs) So if you dont have to go why are you making a big deal about it
Me: cause its the thought that counts. You would of left me there with my poor kidneys about to explode.
her:(says while laughing) but you dont even have to go anyway.
Me: No now you owe me a dance
Her:(laughs) I dont owe you anything you should be asking for it.

So at that point i was just thinking about asking for the dance but then didnt want to risk it being a shit test and me failing it horribly so.

Me: No, you owe me a dance cause you were about let me die.
Her: No, I dont owe you anything.

So at that point i decided to just eject cause i felt that it wasnt going to go anywhere. But for the record everything was said in a joking mannor and there was not uptightness in the convo. but now im thinking should i of just givin in asked then tried to isolate her?

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Don't ever let somebody tell you.. you can't do something. Not even me. All right?

You got a dream.. you gotta protect it. People can't do something themselves, they wanna tell you you can't do it. If you want something, Go get it. Period.

Doesn't anyone have some advice I could use?

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Don't ever let somebody tell you.. you can't do something. Not even me. All right?

You got a dream.. you gotta protect it. People can't do something themselves, they wanna tell you you can't do it. If you want something, Go get it. Period.

personally, i would of said...

pua - Well I will forgive you if you come dance with me (put your hand out with a smile)

Take her down a peg.
Me: Oh, so you're one of THOSE people, huh?
Her: What?
Me: *rolleyes*
Her: What??
Me: No, it's just that you think you're better than everyone else...
Her: *gasp* nuh-uh!

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"A man is but the product of his thoughts, what he thinks, he becomes." - Mohandas Gandhi