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PostPosted: Wed Nov 19, 2008 1:56 pm 
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So, last night was the first time I've really gone out to do this and we started small and were playing a game to help eliminate approach anxiety.

It was basically AFC Adam's 1 minute close routine, ask a girl to marry you. I would pick out a girl for my mate and vice versa.
If she says yes then you can get a hug say to people don't you make a cute couple etc. If she said no then it was either move on or role play that you are in a relationship but proposed too early. Actually, moved on from this into rings routine a few times aswell.

Got 3 k-closes, two of them pretty much straight away with an instant wedding with my mate as the priest.

I found this was a good way to get rid of approach anxiety as it turns the game into an actual game and rejection doesnt hurt as much.


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 19, 2008 3:28 pm 
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It's always good to go out and get results the first night out. One of the elements that I see in all this is you had "FUN." So many guys doing this stuff get wrapped up in all the other things and forget that part of it. Having fun above all else will get you so far.

Good Job! Glad you were able to shrink your AA.

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 19, 2008 5:59 pm 
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^Yeah right on J Smooth. Also, it never ceases to amaze me how easy this routine of "us against them" is pulled off. So much so, that I never really pull out the we're married routine. Yeah, a great way to begin your sarging though, it frames a game and the woman enters into her child ego, the one where she's playing make believe and she wants a boy to play prince charming. Anytime you can bring things to a child-state, you're gonna do well. Keep it up.

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