So starting today I decided that I'm going to do at least 10 approaches a day. I honestly was inspired again to get back out there by Jack Coxwell (from
mypuajourney.com), he's a real down to earth guy, and I've been inconsistent lately. My last Lay Report was in early Sept. with an HB9 and the sex lasted over three hours and we went at it maybe six times over.
Anyway I got out there and realized something. Just "Approaching" in general gives you the tools to become an overall better conversationalist in the long run. I mean I opened men, old women, children, homeless people, the pizza guy, store owners, everyone. It's like, the more you actually "talk" with ppl, the lower your defense mechanism processes input into your body. It kind of like your inner self is comfortable now with allowing more folks to enter in. Which brings me to sticking points of the night.
My usual opinion openers (they come off nature now; I use them alot)
#1 "Who lies More; Men or women?"
#2 "Can a st8 Guy date a girl who's bi?"
Approach 1: Old Milf HB6
Great opening but the lauguage barrier cut it short (thick spainish accent)
Approach 2: Nerdy HB5
> Opener #1
> false time constraint
> "I'm going to tell you the greatest joke you will ever hear..." line
> false time constraint
> Secret Handshake
> 5 Questions Lie Game
> 5 Questions Truth Game (great for raising the odds... this is golden!)
> Qualifing questions
> Style's EV Routine
> Decide not to number # (she was a 5 on my standards)
Approach 3: 2 Set European HB8s
> "St8 GUy/Bi Girl Opener"
I fucking bombed. LOL. The girls were cold... moving on (honestly my body lauguage was off and I waited about 10 second to approach).
Approach 4: Latina HB7
> "Do you mind if I get your female's opinion?"
NEVER ASK your target if she minds... because you'll get:
"Actually I do mind!"
Approach 5: Cute HB7 Korean Student
> Opener: "This is my first time at this mall... you know any men's clothing stores that are cool?"
> She tells me its her first time too, she is VERY shy (been in the States for a month).
> I walk away, I didn't want to continue torturing her.
I mean I'm a black guy in a leather jacket that may come off intimidating at times (I'm working on it).
Approach 6: Very Cute Ice Cream Attendent HB7 Charity
> "WHo lies more, Men or Women?"
> false time constraint
> Greatest joke ever set-up (this is a great routine, I'll explain if you guys are interested)
> 5 Question Lie Game
> 5 Question Truth Game (great "double or nothing" material!!!!)
I tell her we'll chat more on my way out of the mall.
Approach 7: HB4 Costume Sales Girl
> Light Cocky Funny stuff on the cool hats. Last about 15mins.
Approach 8: Make-up Girl HB6 Yasmine
> We met last time I was at the mall (she put eye-liner on me. LONG story but guys you should definitely flirt with the make-up counter girls... they are usually BORED out thier minds).
> Secret Handshake again (I love this... cause you make it up as you go along).
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Take a 20min break to rock out at the MAC store listening to various tunes on the new ipod chromatic (the SHIT is on my Christmas list!!!)
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Approach 9: HB9 Abercrombie & Fitch Anna
(How I could have better handled the AMOG?)
> "Who lies more, Men or Women?" Opener (she gives me INSTANT IOIs)
> false time constraint
> Greatest joke ever set-up.
AMOG walks in set
> 5 Question Lie Game
(tough Kino = she pushing me away because she sucks at lying)
> 5 Question Truth Game (she gives me the Doggy Diner Bowl look), but then I panic because the AMOG is just standing there... impressed! Am I crazy from punking out?
Approach 10: HB4 CheckOut Counter Girl
> 5 Question Truth Game
> Pay for gum and bounce
Approach 11: Very Cute Ice Cream Attendent HB7 Charity (again)
(WHAT did I do wrong?)
> We talk a bit... I qualify her. She tells me her 21st birthday is on the weekend.
> We share TWO passions ( 1 is favorite color is purple, she High Five'd me on this, and 2 is music)
> She gives me great compliance when I make her stand up, walk towards me, and explain the secret handshake.
> Gives me IOIs, says she loves guys from Boston
> When I go for the number # she tells me she doesn't have a cell phone but gave me her myspace?? She gave me enough IOIs, was she lying about the phone thing?
Evaluate pls.
CHAT