Background Info

• Name: Ninja
• Ranking: 8
• Rapport: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

Current Situation

Flirty girl in a relationship. Can't quite figure her out. I just want to see what's going on between the two of us. Don't need sex...just a super cool cute girl I wanna have that connection with.

Lost rapport after idiotically getting drunk. Tried to clumsily make out with her -- which she doesn't seem to have minded -- she called me and we talked about it -- i apologized since she has a BF -- of which, I HATE apologizing (only pussies say "sorry")...it gives the girl authority over you.

Overview

Ninja was the first girl I ever intentionally sarged about 4 months ago. I had made my way into a party at an apartment complex near my college where I knew absolutely nobody. Before I knew it, I was in the back room with her playing someone's guitar for a crowd while her boyfriend was offering me rips of his bong.

We hit it off really well, but I didn't get her number so all was lost until I happened to run into her BF at his supermarket job -- I've built a good rapport w/ him. Then, by another miraculous twist of fate, I ran into her at her job -- she was working at the counter. Like an idiot, I gave her my number instead of getting hers. I made it really nonchalant letting her know I had a good time hanging out with her, how I was new to the area and always looking for something to do. Of course I never heard from her! (Lesson learned right?)

Month goes by and I see her at a party and I sarge hard -- sarge her BF. Through the night I make my way to her. I do some card tricks...a routine that involves a card trick that's perfect for girls who love being in the middle of everything. We have a common taste in music and she begs me to play songs, but I purposely don't. I leave the party for quite a few hours...she calls me drunk wondering where I am at.

I happen see her again on the 4th of July. She looks super cute. I see her trying to get my attention, by walking around on to remote locations playing with her cellphone. I was sarging another girl.

When mixers are needed from the 7-11, I opt to make the trip! Guess who wants to come? Another friend of mine tags along, unfortunately, but I start going kino a bit by friendly putting my arm around her shoulder as we walk -- IOIs all the way. We come back, share cigarettes I bought her (I don't smoke). I do a routine on her on a laptop about typelogic -- demonstrating value, my ability to know her.

Then I fuck up -- get drunk as the buds start hassling me about drinking. I'm an idiot. (Don't drink dudes! Maybe one? I dunno.)

In my drunkeness, I fall apart and I guess my true desires shine through. (Is it true that "a drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts?") I try kissing her.

Needed Advice
Where do we stand now and what's a good way to find out? I'm pretty sure her boyfriend doesn't know. She seemed to think it was funny I was so flirty when I'm drunk (I guess I don't seem that way sober? Hehe...pretty cool.)

Do you think I scared her off? I think she's a cool chick so maybe I should just lay off of her until I happen to run into her again so she doesn't feel threatened.

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- simple
"power, success, and accomplishment; love, companionship, and sex." -- Style

PLEASE! Please, please, please! Give me some advice.

Think I pushed too hard and the whole thing came crashing down, but I think I did the right thing to save it.

Found out tonight she broke up w/ her boyfriend. She invited me outside to the vending machine to tell me while we're at her apartment complex while watching a movie. She told me not to worry about acting uncomfortable around me since she had broken up w/ her bf...I took this as a major IOI. I acted shocked...but I have this strange feeling it was because of me...she realized she could have a better guy because I showed a slight interest in her. (He was a douche bag).

I texted her during th movie to see what time she had work the next day -- wasn't until noon. SO after the movie I hopped on a laptop and made a mock website that said:

"You should come over to my place and keep me company while I finish my homework! I'll take you home before you get too sleepy."

"Ok!" (Which when clicked went to a website of a rock that said "You rock!" Lame i know...hehe but it was on the spot).

"No...I'm lame." (Which when clicked gave a :'( ).

I left the laptop on her lap while I went and talked w/ a girl friend of mine. When I came back she was still on the couch, but I heard her laugh when she saw the "You rock!" picture, but I got no reaction. I stood around awhile, but in frustration I left. "Well, I'm leavin'." I said goodbye to everyone, gave her a hug, and walked out the door.

Was that a bad move? I feel like maybe I pushed to hard too fast and scared her off. I made her feel trapped by saying I'd drive her to my place huh? Should have given her the option to come and go as she pleased. Was leaving a good idea since I wasn't getting a response? Make her chase me? I felt like a type of freeze-out was a good idea...but I think I let my ego get to me and out of frustration (because I wasn't getting a response) I just left. I need to stop getting gratification from reactions.

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- simple
"power, success, and accomplishment; love, companionship, and sex." -- Style

Hey simple it sounds like this girls is definetly into. You need to stop over analyzing everything, i tell myself this all the time. You got to go with your gut and say to yourself this girls just dumped her looser bf, and this is the perfect chance for me to swoop in. I think you probable made the wrong move asking her to do hw with you. That definetly can be taken the wrong way. You should take her to a starbucks and not talk about her bf at all and game her. I think personnely that you should do something fun and daring that her old bf would never do to raise your value. Anyways let me know how it goes and bro i have the same problem as you i always seem to let my buddies get me drunk and ruin my game lol