| My friend invited me to a strip club because she was planning on performing for amateur night. I get there and find myself a seat. I didn't plan on doing any sets because I was expecting to be with my friend most of the night. Well, I'm glad I made some notes before I went out because I was solo for the whole three hours.
Two guys came in shortly after I did. They looked pretty suave so I invited them to sit with me. Giving myself the appearance that I was in a group at least. Waiting for my friend to show up, I wasn't really looking to work any sets. but as the night ticked on I realized they were keeping my friend and the other amateurs in the back.
Of course as in all strip clubs, dancers approached me looking to make money. I would practice a routine on her before dismissing her. My new friend diverted a dancer over to me. She was very energetic and full of enthusiasm. I tried hard not to convey too much interest in her.
She possessed, by far, the best personality in the entire building. I realize now, as I right this, her attitude is exactly the one I need in order to be successful as a PUA. It was almost as if she was trained as a PUA.
oh yeah. when she approached me, she TOLD me to spread my legs and she began to dance for me. No money was exchanged but DAMN she was worth every penny in my bank account. She was an awesome dancer. Not just strip club dance but club dancing. Everything.
As she danced for me I started throwing pebbles and establishing DHVs. I told her I really loved her......shoes. she got a kick out of that. "since I have your undivided attention, lets play a game" I said. I did the number guess and got both right. I believe I was IN on that one. I played it like it was hard with her dancing on me and the lights and music distracting me. "focus harder, I am getting mixed signals." Then I said, " look me in the eyes and focus. Okay, is it....focus harder I'm loosing it." Of course you already know which numbers they were. three and seven.
Where I think I mess up was about three or four songs after the second dance. I simply went blank. I think I may have even let out a sigh. She seemed to snap out of her trance and said, "I am going to talk to some other people. You know, make some money." Sounds logical right. But the two guys whom I invited to sit with me kept and maintained the attention of the dancers they had, without money. By the way, I think those guys may have been PUAs. It was loud and I couldn't hear the conversations but the clothes and attitude were right.
I was looking around to try and find someone to interact with so I wasn't just sitting there looking like a dumb ass waiting on her. It was getting near closing time and my ADD began to dissolve my interest in the place. I noticed the men had thinned out and the rest were paired off with dancers earning their money. So I left.
I think I did pretty good on her for the most part.
I did not need an opener since she opened on me.
I tried to maintain eye contact and dismiss her incredibly hot body which was difficult as she kept rubbing her breasts in my face. And did I mention she was a contortionist? OMMFG!
I did some push and pull with my body language while maintaining a good posture (which it a sticking point for me).
I gave her the aforementioned negs and pebbles while establishing DHVs.
My delivery needs to be tightened up and brought closer together without so much dead time.
Kino was also present and I kept the sexual tension to a minimum. I fought myself real hard but I managed to keep from getting an erection.
I did not pick up a single bad vibe for the entire set.
Tell me, Should I have waited around for her or was it done?
Regardless of the outcome, I am going to seek her out again and at least establish an LJBF because I feel I have a lot to learn from her. Ha Ha, tell her I am putting her on My LBJF list.
Milan (my len)
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