Last night we had our second Open Lair Meeting and it went really well. 22 heads total I counted. So thanks to everybody that showed up. We'll keep you all posted on when the next one is. We just wanted to meet up with some fresh faces and have everybody get to know one another. And that they did.

After the meeting we all decide to head out to our usual Thursday night bars and clubs. We had a lot of heads out last night. I thought we destroyed it last week. HA! This week we opened every set plus others were reopening sets that had already been opened. Good times.

I'ma just write the sets that stood out in my mind, since they were probably the most fun.

1st set.

I'm walking through the bar and I turn around to see nobody behind me, I look to my left and see a 2set and I go in, "I turn around and lose my friends just like that." Girls look at me and say, "Awwwww." Right when I hear that I put my head down with my bottom lip sticking out and hands in pockets. They're really friendly so I start kinoing right off the bat with my hands on their shoulders to see how long they'll let me keep it there. Then the blond says something I like and I pull her in for a mini hug.

After I pull away she starts to go for my beanie and I pull back and slap at her hand. I ask her if she missed the day they teach kids to keep their hands to themselves in kindergarten. Her and her friend start to laugh. After that she starts grabbing on to my dog tags. I'm shaking my head and pulling her in and doing the Zar point like "this one's crazy." For some reason I do the best friends test, the chicks are having a good time. I make them guess my name when they want to know, then they make me guess their job with 3 clues. I couldn't get it. So I look at a 3set with two dudes and one chick in it and bring them in and give them the 3 clues.

Zar's in set with me now and after we give the 3set the clues one of the dudes gets it. They were Yoga instructors. Dude was good. The two sets that merged took a pic with Zar in it, I was the photographer. After that Zar takes off I get a group hug with the Yoga teachers and I'm off.

2nd set.

I'm with Zar and we're walking through the smoking patio and we see this 2set of really fuckin' cute Asian chicks and we go in. I don't remember what I said to open them but I do remember that I opened them since Zar asked me who the trouble maker was. LOL. I was just zoning in on the cutest one. The girl tries to tell us she's gay and that her friend was her girlfriend, so I tell them Zar's my boyfriend and I press up against him. She says to make out. We all laugh.

The girls are chill. Zar finds out they're from LA so we start busting on them for that, "OOOOOOOOOOO!!!! LA?! We're hanging with the cool kids?! Damn, I didn't even know." We kind of get them mini isolated away from their guy friends and I grab my targets scarf, wrap it around my neck and stand in the gayest stance I could do. The guys starts to see how hooked we have their chicks and come in and the chicks move their focus so Zar and I take off. Dude should be happy we got their BT spiked. Later on when they were taking off my target comes up to give me a hug bye and her guy friend literally starts pulling her away. I'm standing next to my security buddy and I explained what happened, he chuckles and says, "He's a hater." while shaking his head. LOL

3rd set.

I'm standing in the middle of the smoking patio and this Asian chick looks in my direction with a semi mean look on her face so I walk over to her tap her on her shoulder and ask, "Why would you give me such a mean look?" I say it with a somewhat serious look with a bit of a smile. She starts telling me that she has a bitchy personality.

I tell her I don't like that much sugar, I like a lot of spice so it's all good. Her friend gets involved, Zar comes and and he asks who the "trouble maker" is and I point to the one I liked 'cause of her personality. Even though her friend was cuter for some reason I like this one. Then after they kinda got ADD I looked at Zar and asked if I could change targets. He just starts laughing and responds with, "Told you." LOL!
They start to walk off in a ADD zone and Zar and I are off.

Jumping around.

Zar and I decide to take of and bar hop, KING KONG asked if we could split some of the group up but we only left with ri\|al I think that's how he does his handle. As we're walking everywhere I'm smiling at chicks, high-fiving them as they pass.

We end up at another bar and see TeddyKGB, Tampons714 and SoldSnake. I just start yellin' all loud. We see a 2set right next to them and I start to talk. Zar I think already had the girl closest to the door talking, so I just start busting on her. Her friend is somewhat listening in but really wasn't having any of it. The chick likes to hassle people you can tell. TeddyKGB ended up chatting with a chick with the hugest rack. Good stuff. After Zar and I learn some weird sexual names like "The Fire Pole" from this water polo instructor who said she just got back from New Zealand, we take off.

On our way back to the first bar we stop by a lounge where ARTISAN was in line at earlier. I opened one set that I recognized but nothing too interesting.

Once we're back to our original spot I ask Rival if he wants to open sets and dude takes off. He opened some of the biggest sets in the spot.

I keep seeing the Yoga teachers here and there and I'd wave and them and say what's up. But once the night started coming to an end I saw the blond out of the pair and went straight into comfort mode since Zar said she was mad into me. After a few minutes of talking I realized I had forgot her name so I lean back and ask KING KONG if he can come in set and introduce himself so I could catch her name again. After he does she calls me out for forgetting her name, KING KONG recovers my fumble really fuckin' well.

I keep my focus on her and then I go in for the number with my usual, "So, if we wanted to stay in contact, how would we go about this?" She looks at me and says she doesn't know and asks how do I normally go about this. lol. I grab her by her shoulders and look at her straight in her eyes and say, "Phone number."

I get her number and then I walk outside to meet up with the fellas to do a mini debrief since a few of us had stuff to do in the early morning, so Denny's was out of the question. LOL!

After the mini debrief and seeing how many approaches we all did and figured out what our sticking points were, WE WERE OUT!

*Sticking Points*

Intent
Story telling. (Even though I can build attraction and comfort, I'd still like to throw in a story or two to see how it goes.)

*Stuff Accomplished*

Kino
Comfort
Eye contact
LEAVING 'EM BETTER THEN I FOUND 'EM.

Until next time...

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