Hello all, I new here, and made a post about trying to Steal a Girlfriend from a guy, when I was driving her back to our College town (Just me and her). I nicked name her winne Cause shes innocent and had a gaint winne the pooh lollip she was eating the hole time.

I took some tips, kept her entertained, gave off negs, tryed not to talk about the boyfriend, painted a fun, colorful future for us, then quickly shot it down (lol, fun) It was going as good as it could! (TY Pick up forums)
Eventually we found out that we had ALOT in commen, (Music, movies, tastes, hobbies). And It was going very well, she even invited me to watch some movies (she even said just "Me and her"), and go out and eat together "sometime".

Now heres where the qestions start. When you get invited somewhere with her Do you made a solid Commitment or just go "Ya maybe!"?? Should I try and bring that she wanted me to spend time with her back up later? Or is that window closed?

Also im not sure what to do now, I dropped her off, and we hugged. And I saw her briefly this morning. She was about to cry actually...she got a bad grade on her test. She ran off in a huff, and I have been trying to get a hold of her but no go.

Should I keep trying these next couple days, to consoul her?? or hope she just invites me someonewhere next time I see her.

Remember she has a BF (but they are having problems... hes Vocally abusive sometimes and I fear its gonna get worse..." Thought I think she still really likes him)

Thanks!

Your motives for this girl can change how you go about contacting her again...If you want a f-close, you should've kino'd while she was with you. When persuing girls with boyfriends, falling into LJBF (lets just be friends) zone is very EASY!!! be careful with that bro. If you care about her and want more than a relationship, then u should comfort her on her on her bad news etc.
Well, in response to those questions you can say "Ye cool, we should work something out" or something along those lines - Were it isnt as definite. To re-kindle that flame, you should just bring up going out again as if she never offered the first time i.e. "we should get a bite to eat/do lunch sometime (something non-threatening)
I think you shoud lay back on this one for a few days/maybe a week or two then call her up to meet.

JST REMEMBER TO KINO WHEN WITH HER!!DON'T UNDER ESTIMATE THE LJBF ZONE!!!

Good luck bro - this could get interesting

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