First night out sarging the other night, run into this HB7.5 who a couple of my friends know but I've never met.
Obeying the three second rule I open with a situational.
DeSade "Hey, aren't you HB
HB "Yeah, and your DeSade right?"
We start talking about how we knew each others names etc etc, and I go into the Jealous Girlfriend routine which she eats up and this keeps us going for 10 minutes or something.
Using slight False Takeaway body language I manage to isolate her, then see a golden opportunity to Cat String using a guy I recognised who comes into my work sometimes.
By this point shes given about 5 IOI's ive Negged her a couple of times been escalating kino and im feeling good (this may be partially due to the number of vodka red bulls i had ingested, this it turns out will come back to haunt me with some of the other girls i meet this night ).
DeSade "How good a kisser do you think you are?"
HB "Pretty Good"
DeSade "Prove It"
She does. And shes right.
We talk some more and I number close, then she suggests we go back inside (we were out in front of the club) because it was cold, I agree cause im shirtless and cold (a whole other story).
Somehow, we get seperated. Dont ask how, cause I dont know and im pretty sure this was a mistake.
Anyways, fast forward to a couple days later I text her. Ill just copy the text messages verbatim, for ease.
10.23pm
DeSade: Sunday rapidly became the wierdest night ever. Lol. I almost forgot you gave me your number, just found it. Do you like compliments?
10.23pm
HB: Is this DeSade? What happened on sunday then lol i lost you after we went back in. And yeah what girl doesnt like compliments lol. X
10.55pm
DeSade: Of course its me! How many ppl did you give your phone number to?! I dont know what happened, u disapeared! I like them too, you go first...
10.57pm
HB: I was just making sure it was you before i made a fool of myself. And you asked me first. So you go first. I gave you a compliment on sunday. Your turn x
11.24pm
DeSade: You did!? What did you say!? Lol. Incase you didnt notice i was pretty drunk! x
11.53pm
HB: Yeah you were. You asked me to rate you on kissing 1 to 10. And I said eight and a half. So its your turn x
NB.
I didnt ask her to rate me I asked her how good she thought she was, she misunderstood, it would be stupid for me to ask that.
12.17am
DeSade: Oh Yeah!? Lol. I remember now. I suppose that does make it my turn. Well then I love the way your lip piercing felt when you kissed me! I love piercings! Do you have any others? x
1.10am
HB: Yeah I have eleven. (Goes on to list piercings) What about you? I'm more a fan of tatoos myself x
1.33am
DeSade: Just both nipples horizontally, which im sure you saw the other night! (Again, because I had my shirt off) And another one which im not telling you about! Lol. What you doing on Thursday? x
NB.
Thursday is two days away.
1.43am
HB: Haha as soon as someone says there not telling, its an easy guess where it is. I have uni till two then i'm free. Whys? X
2.01am
DeSade: Yeah I know, its hard not to give away! There are lots of types tho, that can be my secret! Lol. Im meeting up with some friends after work for a while & thot u & i could meet up later on? x
2.44am
HB: When you working till? Cause im currently at my mums which is in "
smalltown just outside city", so id have to wait in town. This is my last 10p so i'll topup and text you tomorrow x
So did I fuck up here somewhere? I felt like my game with this chick was pretty strong up until i text her. Somewhere in the flow of the texts it felt a little like i was losing it. The time between texts changed substantially and the vibe changed somewhat. I still think she's up for a day two but this is less about whether or not i managed to close this one but where in the process of the game i fucked up.
Any input into any mistakes I made?
Oh and as an FYI, I am fully converted, PUA beats AFC hands down every time, as though you didnt already know!
CHAT