3 botched closes in one night...grr


k so I'm starting to use pua techniques at house parties, most importantly opening and showing disinterest. as a side note, I think ive got the push part down but my pull needs some work. anyways so I was negging this HB 8 about a patterned shirt she was wearing which after i negged her for a bit, she removed (she had another shirt underneath) which I saw this as an IOI. I just didn't know how to bring that target further through the stages. any suggestions for this?

the second one was on a silver platter. pretty intoxicated HB9 had a red beer cup stuck one of her heels. I did a pretty good job making her feel like a complete clutz and I acted like I was just doing the poor girl a favour pointing it out. She introduced herself and I negged her on her name haha. she was hooked and she asked my name. then she asked me if I could show her where the downstairs washroom is. I said sure so we headed downstairs. ISOLATION. She repeated my name a couple times which was another IOI. All of this happened within a minute and I was already in isolation so I panicked. I had no idea what to do next and couldn't think of any decent routines so I just pointed her to the washroom and headed back upstairs. anyone know what to do in this situation??

in the third approach, time was a factor. I was negging her on her outfit (which was actually pretty stylish but included suspenders). so i was negging her on those and i snapped them a couple times. I had a plan for once I got a little ways into comfort and that was to just say something along the lines of "you're a pretty cool girl. we should hang out more (wait for her to agree)." ask for number. but the ppl I came with were bouncing and I had to go. once again I came home empty handed...

Just to keep things short, Im just gonna comment on this part. Clearly you were getting the IOI's and barring you fucking up and saying something stupid you couldve had this girl in the bag. My suggestion is that the next time you go out, have a cheat sheet on your phone w/ 1 or 2 default routines, or memorize 1 or 2 default routines for situations like this where you just draw a complete blank. Doesnt even have to be a great routine, because in situations like this, unless you say something completely fucked up, you have the girl in the palm of your hand. So next time go with something like ESP routine/ 5 lies game/ Do you think David Bowie is hot opener/ Cube/ Questions game/ Strawberry field. Any of those routines would work. Then if your feeling it, go for the K-close with Mystery's "Do you want to kiss me line". Anyways, theres my 2 cents. Hope it helps.

After having time to think about it, I think what I should have done was say something along the lines of "wait a minute. I know what you're doing leading me down here. very sneaky" I could then branch off into a sexual predator routine or tell her that she needs to get to know me first and should come find me after she's done using the washroom. any involved routine like cube or strawberry feilds would be too much because she would have been complaining that she had to use the washroom but a short routine like esp or something would have done the trick. most important thing i think is that u shouldn't wait outside for her, just tell her to come find u after.

Ya I like the "wait a minute..." line, and leading into sexual predator routine. Something like that wouldve worked. As far as the bathroom part. If she says she really needs to go, then you dont even have to tell her to come find u after. Just go, and find any girl and just start talking about anything to create a jealously plotline. Then the girl will come up to you and ask you why left. Then you introduce her to your new friend, and boom. You now have 2 options. haha