Ah I'm feeling good right now,
hey, here's a collection of field repoprts from my time as an aspiring, I would say, now successful, PUA.
Am I an mPUA? of course not. But I'm at a point where I would now gladly bet $1000 that I could go to any city in America, and f-close at least one HB8 or 9 who I've never known before within the space of one week.
All of these have taken place (except for the first), within the past two weeks. And I've been too busy to actually go out, so all of these (except for the first), are day-game. All of these girls have high social value too. I've omitted several less interesting ones.
#1 - Irish girl k-close HB6.5
Me and my mate went into a piano bar to have some fun. There's two HB7s sitting next to us. My friend is a marine. So we buy a few drinks, listen to the music. We decided to open them. We start a fake argument (he wears his sunglasses at night, sometimes).
Me: "hey"
Her: "what's up?"
Me: "I need a girl opinion... is it lame to wear your sunglasses at night"
Her: "Ehh yeah.."
Me: "Dude, the GIRL agreed with me! Haha you just got rejected by a GIRL!!"... I used a similar mechanism several times. You're subtly negging by suggesting that she is merely a "girl." Furthermore, you're introducing an idea that they are there to either reject/be picked up by guys. So yo immediately introduce that concept into the convo by saying he got rejected. We got into a conversation. She works in the US Senate. She's not stunning, but she's cute, and the fact that she's a Senate Legislative Assistant gives her extra social value. Not a lot to add to this discussion other thn a regular 1st date k-close. I never ended up f-closing because I oved onto an HB9.
Still got her number though.
The main thing I want to discuss here is the way o positioning yourself 'against' your wingman to easily open sets.
I opened an HB9 (#-close too), like this:
We were sitting like this:
blonde -- HB8 -- me -- wing
Wing buys a drink for HB8, I pass it along. If she accepts it, I say whatever. If she rejects it, as she did, then I just go "DUDE, you just got rejected by a GIRL!", and then go into A1 and CF.
#2 - Bulgarian Bartender f-close - HB9
I posted an earlier post with the txt-msging here. This girl is Bulgarian (I said croation last time, I was wrong, turns out she lived in Zagreb for a little while, but she's bulgarian). She is a Bartender and an HR director.
Approach, CnF, you can see my other post for the txt-game.
She's 25, thus, max confidence level. HB9, hard to game. And a bartender. She's now my girlfriend, more or less.
Interestingly, she said the thging that many guru's have observed. 99% of guys are AFRAID to approach her. And she's not sure if it's because she's so hot or if it's because she has some weird look or something. It's funny.
A couple of tips I gained from this one. Talking about previous open relationships/quick hook-ups, (whether actually true or not) immediately makes her think that you view women as good company, and as fun to fuck, without neccesarily the vast emotional baggage of a 'relationship'. With this girl, I just subtly sliped in that I'd dated a model/promoter (true), had a friends w/ benefits relationship with a girl who looked like Scarlett Johannson (kind of true), and basically implied that it's perfectly normal for me to have NSA (no strings attached) sexual relationship. Before long she starts talking about how she likes having her pussy eaten, and I had sex with her next day, total time together - 3 hours. No alcohol, and doesn't seem to be 'easy'. She's 25, married once, and makes a lot of money as an HR director, and a bartender at a very classy bar.
#3 Ukranian girl - #-close - HB9
This is interesting, worked well. This girl asked me for directions, I got into a conversation. Now here, (as I do, in the form of the above girl), I told her I had a girlfriend. Yet complimented her a lot. It's like push and pull. "You are absolutely gorgeous... I shouldn't say that, because I have a girlfriend...." and then when I start getting IOIs (because I'm DHVing, such as the story where I was photographed by fashion photogs from Kenneth Cole -true story), then I let her know that it's an open relationship (my girlfriend is an exclusive girlfriend
-- not true, but worth it to get her number), and I end up number closing.
#4 Broadway Ballet Dancer - k-close - HB9
So here, as I was gaming the Ukranian girl and getting visible IOIs, this ballet dancer had noticed. There is a guy and a girl and I initially presumed they were in a relationship. Turns out I was wrong. I ask his permission to hit on his girl, he grants it. I AMOG him, but very friendly. (Such as by complimenting him, which puts you as a judge of him subtly). Neg her a little. I've already got huge social value from the ukranian girl sitting on my lap (she did for a second), HB9 that she is, and the fact that this girl's male friend thinks i'm uber-cool, blabla. We end up talking, she somehow gets onto discussion of masturbation habits (we shared one habit
), then she shakes my hand and I hold her hand, and she ends up lying on top of me, and then we kiss and then she leaves. This took place over about 2 hours. Facebook closed her, plus k-close.
In 2 years, I've gone from someone who has had girls turn him down even after they initially were interested (I'm good looking), to a point where I can easily # close or more girls every day. And a HB9 bartender for a girlfriend. This is life.. If anyone wants some questions, please post here. I just thought I'd write up some of my thoughts since I had some free time.
And this is the thing. The way I learnt how to walk, how to dress, and how to talk. I'm in the Diamond District in NYC and I have hyper rich jewish jewelers (women in their late 20s wearing Rolex watches) calling me a doll and giving compliments left right and center.
I walk down Broadway and I am APPROACHED by Kenneth Cole agents who photograph me for my stye as inspiration for next year's designs and give me their cards if I'm interested in looking into modelling. (even tho I'm not THAT good looking and CERTAINLY don't have the body... but I walk right, and I dress right, and it seems I'm hyper-attractive).
Just by the way I talk and act, I get called 'charming' by nearly everyone I talk to. A 'player' or 'manwhore' by girls I game (a compliment, btw)... And nearly everyone I ever meet remembers me. At company reunion parties I'm a legend and everyone knows my name even who haven't met me.
And it's not a natural thing. I have transformed completely in just 6 months. And I wanted to testify to it. The game isn't bullshit. Just don't take it too far. Take the tips, understand the mechanisms, understand the psychology, dress right, move, talk, slowly and calculatedly, AMOG, and be yourself but with a sense of cocky/funny humor. Magic.
Good luck, enjoy your game. Comments welcome.
CHAT