Met a girl, and tought she was awsome... push through the MM model to C1...
called her, and met up on thursday at starbucks...
where she seems to turn form sassy into bitchy
she was much less compliant this time...
and didn't contribute to the conversation.
nor fulfull her role in half of my routines
(it looks like a series of IOD's)
and when i wanted to leave (abort the situation) she suggested a bounce, and rode with me there... where i think aborted the situation
She seems upset that i would just ditch her, but she wouldnt approach my wing and I for conversation either...
(feeling like i've bollocks the entire date up and taking the hit to my confidence---)

later i talked with her on the phone... she'd still pick up on conversation if i paused for too long, which is what i was looking for...
But then she drove to the coast to see her parents and now she's cold and distant.
I feel like i've lost all value with this girl.... i don't want to DHV anymore, it would take too long to regain value, i want a fresh target to try again...

Playing the game sucks sometimes, like when it reminds ya how much of an ackward nerd ya are.... Last time i felt defeated and hopless I had to meet 8 new girls before i started to feel better again...

Can any of you guys relate?

It was a shit test. She was testing you to see if she could get to you with her behavior. She wanted to find out if you would control the frame of the situation and be unaffected. Women do this regularly to see if they can get a guy to chase, call, ect. I will typically just act like nothing is even wrong between me and the woman; I don't care if she is cold because it's her right to be and I don't need her or a certain outcomes as I can walk out to other opportunities.
You can't let things get to you because then you're natural alpha behavior is going to be stunted and effected by your need to do damage control on the situation.

- Chris

- Chris