hey guys im joining this forum but need some advice!! im going around the world in 4 months so i had to split with my 1 and half year girlfriend - the thing is i still (love) her. tonight i gota call from my freinds who are out and they called me telling me she was with another guy who looked like me!! its been less than 1 month. Please can i have some adive on how to get over her and start over!! certain questions:

what if she calls me?
shall i see her again? if so what shall i say?
what about old photo's?
what attitude shall i keep?

any help would be much appriciated! thanks

J-1

A chick told me this advice once; if nothing else,
it may give you a healthier frame in which to think
of things:

"Every relationship you have that fails, happens
for a very specific reason; It's to very specifically
prepare you for the next person you meet, who
will likely be even better; You learn skills,
You learn about yourself, and what you want,
and become stronger (stronger game)"

So, to look at it like that, No hard feelings about
old GF, it was like a bootcamp for the chick you're
about to meet abroad. We get in our minds that
we'll never find a GF better than the one we just had;
Why do we feel that way? Does that make any logical sense?

Hope that helps.

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"the Difference between fear and
excitement is perception"

thats a great help - i really like how its put - thanx buddy

J-1

stick and move. you have already won. keep your eyes on the next prize.

the best way to "get over it" is to meet new people and not mention the X to your friends. they do not want to hear a pity party or be part of unnecessary therapy.

yeah, you can be in love, but you have to chiggity check yourself before you wiggity wreck yourself!

sometimes easier said than done, but do your anger-denial-depression-acceptance asap and get back in the game.

more fish in the sea!

now, keep fishing!

I can't believe you had a girlfriend for a year and a half...dude you're traveling around the FUCKING WORLD! I mean what's the problem here? Go to Rio and shoot a porn for chrissakes-you're lucky you can scratch such a badass trip-

I can hear you, believe me. good luck bro, just keep breathing and learn about the game and about your own psychology. Nietzsche was right when he said that whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

peace to you bro.

look dude you have one-itis and we all know the best way to cure one-itis fuck a dozen girls

I must agree with Jaxin on this one. There will be others; your here now because you want change. We're all here to help; just remember that you and you alone have the power to end the pain whenever you please. All you need to do is go up to the next girl you find attractive and say.....

- Clutch

keep going meet new ppl

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FOR ONE THING, YOU GOT TO BE CONFIDENT ABOUT YOURSELF AND DON'T LET HER MAKE YOU INSECURE. I SUGGEST GO TO A CLUB OR A BAR AND MEET NEW PEOPLE. BUT AT LOOKING AT YOUR GRAMMAR, I THINK TO MEET NEW PEOPLE IS DOING DISSERVICE TO THE OTHER HOTTIES AND TO OUR ART. IF YOU TWO WEREN'T MEANT TO BE, THEN MAYBE AFTER YOUR TRIP SHE ALREADY FOUND HER SOULMATE. THERE IS A REASON FOR EVERYTHING. BEFORE YOU START MACKIN' AT DA CLUBS, YOU NEED TO LEARN TO LET GO FIRST BECAUSE IT WILL SLOW YOUR GAME. I BEEN THERE. SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE.