Alright guys. Here's the run down. I don't usually go out and try to pick up a girl straight off from the bar. Done it once and awhile, but its just not my thing. I good at the dating game, but up until this summer it's always been me who decides for the second date, and how whats going on from there. I've always had the option for the second date.

This summer I got shut down huge. It wouldn't be so bad, if it wasn't the first time... It kills me because I'm starting to over analyzing everything. Its made me less confident. So in total, its killing my game and I have no idea how to stop myself.

Someone offer some advice, help me out.

(being shy woman)

Get this :

She lost her chance to be with YOU , You are not NEEDED you get the GIRL you want , YOU allways choose which GIRL you want to date , So go out and sarge; BELIEVE in YOURSELF...


Don't over analyzing everything; Learn from your mistakes and move on , She lost her Chance.



YOU ARE THE MAN

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Thanks xfman... It really helps when you put it like that.

That just gave me a breath of confidence..

dude think about it this way,

you said you're pretty good at the dating game and you always decide when to get a 2nd date and this summer you got shut down huge right? well, man you cant get every girl and thats ok because everyone is so different from each other. all i can say, is that you are alpha, so go and find another girl. i have a "NEXT" attitude with every girl im with and they can sense that they have to qualify for me not the other way around.

practice inner game so it comes naturally to you. also, go find some more girls man. anyone let me know if its just me who thinks this way,, but dont you seem to notice how different cliques of ppl sort of in a way resemble the current clique you're in right now. like what i mean is that there will always be someone relating to you.. whether it be race language, or just plain interests/ thats the way i see girls. if you find a Dream girl im tallking everything you want in a girl.. chances are you;ll find another girl exact same features taste somewhere else. no lie, think about it, send me some feedback

-peace

([b]being shy woman[/b])

xfman, and spiderman1... I really appreciate it guys... The current girl I've been sarging, just came over for a small party. I know she's interested, since she came over, even just after one date. So my game is one the mend.

I really appreciated the words of wisdom... They've really helped. I'm no longer anxious or nervous.

Thanks guys.