Well recently I was trying to get back a girl who lost interest in me. I know how terrible it sounds but for 3 months I was trying and trying - using different tactics, not contacting her for long periods of time etc etc.

It didn't work. I don't know maybe it's possible. Maybe she was really awesome.
But I met another girl a week ago. She's really amazing and I get lots of ioi's from her but...

Now I realise how much my inner game sucks after these 3 months. I text this new girl and automatically think: "she's surely not gonna text back!". I ask her out and automatically think: "she obviously doesn't wanna see me and it's only gonna dlv me". No matter how much we were flirting previously - I still get these thoughts and it's terrible! I'm not quite sure how to handle it. It doesn't happen when I see her in person though but when we're texting it's disturbing!

So I'm sure a lot of you guys have been there - stuck for whatever reason, on a girl who's not interested. Never put yourself through this - you might not only not win her back, but also lose a new girl because your inner game would be damaged.

From previous relationships (specially early on) I had tried getting back every time after breakup...always ended up bad.

Even after getting back together for a while it was not the same, i lost alot of value.

But yeah soon I realized that I fucked on alot of levels in my old relationships, should of done things differently etc. At the end of the day they will only focus on bad things, so you might as well just move on and find a new girl...

I've been through a pretty bad breakup myself and i thought i wanted to win her back as well. I learned about the game during my breakup, and i turned it around. She was the one who should be happy with ME, I AM AWESOME, not her. Oh well, of course she is, but i am MORE awesome and she should be seeing me as price, not the other way around. And if she couldn't see that then it's her loss. I broke contact and started working on my game, after 6-8 weeks i had a few girls chasing me. Around this time my ex-gf contacted me to catch up, she missed me and wanted to talk. She lost interest in me as well, that's why we broke up. So when we met again, i told her about was i had been up to and i was very cold about it. After this she desperately wanted me back, now we have an open relationship so i can still work on my game and be with her. Roles turned. Now she is the one chasing me, and i have no responsibilities towards her what soever.

I'm not sure if this would work for anyone, but blindly chasing her and keep whining about how important she is to you will probably not fix anything. You have to proof yourself again, and make yourself the price she thinks its worth fighting for. I love my girl till this very day, alot, but i don't rub it in every day. Make her work for it, make her earn it. If she doesn't, then i'd say it's been a good run, be thankful that it happened, and move on. It will all happen again, better, with a girl who fits you better

Good luck bro!