TESTS

When you approach a woman when you are in a place where there is a lot of guys trying to approach her, like a bar or a club, than she is in charge. A lot of women take advantage of this and act arogant, rude, cold and unaproachable.
Some women are just that. Some women are just cold, unaproachable and that's final. Maybe they have boyfriends that they love, maybe they just got their heart broken or whatever. You can't know. And her being cold and not reacting to what you're saying to her has NOTHING to do with you.
Some women are cold, act bitchy and arogant because they CAN. And they want to treat you as bad as they can so they can feel better. This is not the women you want to hang out with. You will have a lot of women of this kind and sometimes it's best to just walk away and leave them alone, and just make a note that these are just this kind of women.

But here is the next part of this message. Not all women are not obtainable. There are other types of women also. Very often, these types of women hang out at bars and clubs and still seem unapproachable and cold but that's only because of one particular reason. She want's to test you, if you're strong enough to pass her shit. She want's to see if you're stronger than her.

Women of this type actually like men and WANT to hang out with them. But first..

I remember one time a friend of mine had real problems with this girl. She was cold, almoust arrogant but he was persistent in an intelligent way (big difference between being persistent and being persistent in an intelligent way ) and he wound up sleeping with her ( That's the difference ). After they had sex he was interested in why she acted so rude and arrogant. He said to me later, that he'll never forget what she told him. She said: "I had to make sure that you are strong enough to have me"

What?

This type of women will test you how strong you are.

You see, if you don't feel safe and secure in yourself that women can't really hurt you than she will feel that you're weak. If she feels that she can get to you by being arrogant, act bitchy and rude, than she WILL. But if you can pass those test with ease, than she will feel "this guy is something else. And why aren't my attitudes working with him? I want to find out. Let me find out more."

The way to pass these test is to anticipate them in advance and to know that it is a test when it comes up. A perfect example on how you can pass this test is:

A: She act rude
B: Haha, that's cute. I know guys are spilling beer on you whole night and asking you where you bought your shoes and you have to do this. If I was you, I would do the same. But don't try this whole "I'm a bitch" on me, because it ain't workin. Rather be nice to me and maybe I'll let you buy me a drink. After all, that is why you were checking out my ass all night.

Test passed.

A: She acts rude
B: Bitch.
Test failed.

But the trick is, to really not be affected by it.

This is not always easy to do. There is a lot of emotion in you just by gathering the guts to go there and talk to her, experiecing another emotion on her acting this way could be rather challenging for some guys.

So it's important for you to understand to what is happening, and realize it's just her bullshit to see if you're strong enough to have her.

Even dough it can be very emotional for you, stay calm. Grab hold of your emotions with understanding what is really happening and don't let it get to you. If it's her unconcious bullshit, why would you take it personally? Rather, play with it. Even if she really turns out to be a psycho ( wich a lot of women are by the way ) than you can laugh and leave.

But some guys want revenge. Ok, I'll go with that. I can understand that. But you can also understand, that with women it's not about revenge but her testing to see how strong you are. And if you show that you are strong enough, she will feel attraction for you. Are you strong enough to have her?

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