| In the past few months I've really realized that people ussually dont appreciate themselves enough.
Most afcs ussually say:"Damn if I looked like that I would have so many chicks!" but quess what, some better looking afc is probably thinking the same thing.
The thing is you need to realize that you are not ugly by nature. You may have some "anomalies" that make you look ugly like bad hair, bad teeth, too skinny, too fat, whatever, but the best part is, all of that can be changed. I know a lot of really good looking guys, who ussually blame their failures with women on their looks, and Im like:" Dude are you serious!!"
I deeply believe that there is something very good about having some ugly features. Mine are teeth. I have crowded teeth but my face is really good looking, I know that, even if somebody told me it wasnt I would still know it is. Anyway I started practicing this game stuff even with my bad teeth and it made me realize how much your inner game actually matters and how much looks dont. I have had more success then a lot of the other much better looking AFCs. And I appreciate myself a lot more because of that.
Now here is the kicker, I think that when you have that kind of ugly feature and you are still getting moderate success and your confidence is growing even with those bad features you value the good features a lot more, A LOT MORE then some of the other AFC's. And then once you finally, correct those bad features, you are pretty much 100% happy with yourself and your confidence is trough the roof.
That is what I am planning to do, soon I'll begin wearing braces and hopefuly I will have a normal smile afterwards and then I will have much more confidence because I will be completely happy with my looks.
So basicly what Im trying to say is, appreciate yourself more damnit!
|
CHAT