I am currently sitting here in my room. I come alive at night for some reason, this is when I am highly motivated to do certain things and plan my life in the right way and hope to one day set out and conquer my aspirations.

There is such a thin line in your head, a mental switch, which in my opinion determines your mood. If someone gives you bad news, automatically you're in a terrible mood for the rest of the day. Good news = a massive high and attractive qualities to other observers.

Quote -

"I've told you before happiness comes from within, you cant get it from other people, and once you have your own happiness lantern switched on inside other people will be attracted to you...yes its hard, but nothing worth having is easy, otherwise everyone would have it"

Phil Parker says Fear of failure will always stop you succeeding. Failure is nothing to fear. No one should be afraid of failure. If you strive for success, there are going to be occasional failures. If you set yourself a target and don't reach it, at least you've experienced something new - today i want you to set yourself a target - something challenging and a bit scary, and even better if it involves getting out of your pit and mixing with other people - who knows you may even make some new friends and not be so lonely - and then i want you to start doing it - hey how about running a marathon? exercise is a fantastic way to feel better about yourself.

Then he said Better to appreciate what you've got than go chasing an illusory happiness. 'Happiness is as a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but which if you sit down quietly may alight upon you.' It still rings true to me. Sometimes we strive too hard to pursue happiness. There are times when it's better to sit back and realise what you have. When I do that I realise that, in spite of everything, I actually have a great life.

Building the Attitude

An attitude being built of never giving up that will hopefully never leave me from a book I am reading called "Lone Survivor" - Marcus Luttrell.

Background of it is, Marcus has trained ten years to be a navy SEAL, they are called into action only when things get tough and are given dangerous jobs. Woken up at four oclock in the morning everyday for four years, bed at 12 o'clock.

Best passage of the book you need to take a lesson from.

"One time during Indoc while we were out on night run, one of the instructors actually climbed up the outside of a building, came through an open window, and absolutely trashed a guys room, threw everything everywhere, emptied detergent over his bed gear. He went back out the way he came in, waited for everyone to return, and then tapped on the poor guys door and demanded a room inspection. The guy couldnt work out whether to be furious or heartbroken, but he spent most of the night cleaning up and still had to be in the showers at 4:30 with the rest of us.
I asked Reno about this weeks later, and he told me... Marcus, the body can take damn near anything. Its the mind that needs training. The question that guy was being asked involved mental strength. Can you handle such injustice? Can you cope with that kind of unfairness, that much of a setback? And still come back with your jaw set, still determined, swearing to God you will never quit? Thats what we are looking for".


A Woman is what makes you most happy in life. You have to be the best possible version of you, to allow you to even have a chance of attracting a women worth smiling about

If you are without a strong destiny or purpose in life, it is going to be so easy for any wind to sway you. You have to be solidly focused on your path, goals and destiny that nothing (a WOMAN) can tear you away from. If you make a woman your destiny or prize at the end of the path I can assure you now you have your priorities wrong and mixed.

"Learn to become the center of your orbit, and not anyone elses, because youwill lose a lot of character, birthright and effectiveness"

When you are on your path and not open to being swayed around by the perceptional visage of a woman and her drama, she will be attracted to the rock you present... You.

To all you ONEITIS People

It's not a Disney movie.

No one said it would be easy.

There are 3 billion girls around and you want to waste your effort to the particular one? If you cut off the yellow and black ones (like I did) there is still at least 500 milion of them. If the average living rate is 75 and you want to get the ones 15-30 there is still 100 milion. If you want to stick to HB8,9 and 10's - It's at least 15 milion (let's say the beauty is not common).

If you are 20 and you will die at 100 - it's 80 years of getting with girls, so not even 30.000 days.

If you want to take it all it would mean boning 500 girls daily. And assuming that you will get older and the girls won't (the truth is that every year you will have one milion more girls to fuck). Can you handle this?

Listen, in four weeks, it can mean you have wasted 30 days of your precious life doing nothing but wasting lay chances. That means you have wasted 15.000 girls you could have had.

Enough.

Get to work and act like a man! One girl has nothing that these 15 milion girls don't. And believe me, this is a challenge.

I want replies on what gives you smiles everyday, what makes your life tick, and gives you credit of an attractive life style