Hey guys,

I've heard it from two girls now and that's enough. I really don't like it that they think I'm arrogant. Of course I want to express self confidence and pride, but I somehow overdid it. Of course I am not faking my behaviour by the way, on the contrary, I have no idea how I could be showing arrogance.

Has anyone had this problem before and/of does someone know what I could do to prevent this from happening again?

Thanks in advance!

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I used to get this alot, still do somewhat from girls. Arrogant and playfully dominant share a very fine line...

Usually it happens when she shit tests me and I spank her down into the ground with a cheeky answer... but sometimes I come across way harsher than I mean to, especially if I have some drinks in me. The solution I found was to respond to the shit tests differently.

An example: I dress really metro. REAAAAALLLY metro. Girls used to call me out for dressing like a gay dude, and I'm reply with some smart alecky comment about how I knew I looked good (hey, I did). But the truly alpha guy shouldn't ever have to SAY he knows he looks good, but rather SHOW he knows it through his actions.

So now I respond with "you totally caught me, I AM super gay... so how long have you had a thing for gay dudes?" Something along those lines. My advice is to try less hard to show her how awesome you are, and just BE that awesome instead.