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Ok to take a girl out on a lunch date for a first date?
If i makeout with a chick at a party for like 20 mins how can i get her back to my place to do the do... should i insinuate thats what i want to do?
does it work if you say something like this, "hey lets go back to my place and have crazy wild hot sex," jokingly?
a lot of my problem is doing what comes after making out... thats my sticking point i guess.
My usual response to this would be "Dude you're overanalyzing, stop planning so much and just let it happen", but if you ask for a help I'll try at my best to answer it to you, so:
- First date should be casual, pick up the activity, that you both enjoy and then bounce around. I normally do one big event (something that is fun or she really likes) and series of small ones (lunch, drink, shopping...), where to take her out for a lunch, to a closest resturant, it looks very spontaneous

- "hey lets go back to my place and have crazy wild hot sex," Don't know, haven't tried that one out. But for pulling her home, you can say something like: ''Hey I've got really cool x,y,z at my place, you gotta check it out" (In my case I say to the girl, that I have part of a moon rock, that I got from one of the scientist from NASA, but it's really just a raw sillicon rock, that looks soooo real

[Yes I know I'm a one big liar and manipulator:)])
