| ok here it is, there are three things you must have to pick up women. I'm not an expert in the field but for the past several months I have read and analyzed a lot of things.
- Appearence: Must dress nice and clean up, nails, teeth, etc.
- Body language: Must have great confident body language! (most important)
- Speak well: Must have melody and not be monotone.
Appearance speaks for itself i dont think i need to go any further in that subject.
Body Language, this is the most important area of all, why, because 90% of people will form their opinion of you in the first 90 seconds of meeting you. How does body language help you with this? 85% of communication is nonverbal (body language), 10% is voice quality, tone, volume, melody. and the rest is what your actually saying. Women's brains are wired, unlike ours, to read body language. These are facts! they work! How can you acomplish this, read books and practice.
Speaking well is a minor resource you have to do but still carries more weight than what you are actually saying. A lot of people speak in monotone, where it is very plain and not in melody. Wuld you rather listen to a song with one note or a song with different notes. You talk in melody people will be more adapt to listen. Also volume is a huge problem, when you speak low or soft, in reality your conveying, i'm so shy i don't want other people to hear what i'm saying. Speak loud! be proud! this wll show confidence. Get a voice coach or read several books on voice control.
These things will not only help your dating life but will also improve your entire life!
I don't care if your the ugliest thing in the world, if you have these three things with the mystery method, or other game, you will pick up chicks. Hott chicks, i wouldn't count on it but 7 or 8's of course! You have to accept, if you are 100 pounds overweight, you need to lower your standards to a 7 or 8 not a 10, because it's not going to happen.
No matter which method of game you use, these will help.
Good Luck!
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