Hey guys!

After several years of trying I've started to rethink my whole approach. I basically am trying to find the right method or school for me. To really convey my personality I've done a short video (8mins) introducing myself and trying to give you the most relevant information too give me advice on paths to take. If you have any questions, or you think I left something out, please let me know. I really encourage you to comment on this, and I would be extremely grateful for any help!

http://www.vimeo.com/20199415

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Awesome video, bro. If it weren't for the fact that this is an open forum I would post one too!

So from what you said I picked up on a couple of things.

Your speaking and eye contact in the beginning of the video were pretty bad. It progressively got better as you spoke. I would imagine that some of this "low confidence body language" breaks through when you are opening sets.

MM is pretty much a step by step guide and I think great for beginners. It really only took me a couple of weeks before I realized I needed something less specific.

David D's book "Double Your Dating" would be perfect for you. He covers a lot of cocky/funny stuff and it is easier to make it flow more naturally. He also covers a lot of inner game stuff that I think would be very beneficial to you. I also suggest actually reading his suggested readings in that book.

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Thanks Jits! I've always really liked David D's stuff. I like the way he thinks and teach. I've acctuallly took your advice and started watching the Man Transformation program. I feel it's going to take some time...

I've been taking an interest in direct game lately. I like the idea of it, and also it seems right in my current situation where I tend to make interactions too hard and overplay the whole push thing a bit. I've already experienced a shift just thinking about it. Seems as though I've been shutting women out trying to "gain! value or maintain value or something...

This was actually my first video ever, in all categories so I was a bit unsure of what too say and how too so it, but as you noticed I warmed up towards the end...

Might do more video entrys since it'smore practical then typing for me (I'm swedish)...

Thanks again Jits!

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