I’ve been listening to a lot of MP3’s featuring Neil Strauss aka ‘Style’. Often he mentions the notion of living in your own head. I’ve read The Game and various other things he’s written/recorded and all though I’ve heard this on numerous occasions, I’m not too sure what it means.

Could someone please explain.

Is it someone who over thinks things and finds it hard to step outside themselves and analysis and critique their own social behaviour. If so then I fear I may be one of those people, and I may need your help!


Ta!

It is my understanding that it means you are constantly in your head trying to think of the next thing to say and over-analysing everything you do?

yep... that's me!

I do it too..its become a nasty habbit now. Just let things be as they are and dont over analyse things. Read the book "change your thoughts, change your life" absouletly amazing

Being self critical and over analyzing things can be to do with the fact you may be seeking validation, which is very common amongst afc's.

An example would be that with no women in your life, if one of the first few women you approached and talked to, said to you that you are wierd. You may act insecurley

Then you may think of what she said for weeks, months or even years to come. Sound familiar? Well this is usually gone once you have enough/plenty of women in your life because then if someone said to you that your wierd, you would laugh it off with them and probably agree. As in your head you know that you have already been accepted and validated by many other girls, some even hotter than this girl maybe?! Understand?

Hope this helps in some way, it's one thing knowing this but another doing something about it!

The fact that you are trying to get your inner game sorted and that you are posting in this section, is proof that you have problems with some part of you inside your head! Obvious yes, but unlike most people, you have identified this and are doing something about it so...thumbs up!

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