So I just told this girl that wanted to go salsa dancing with her. ( She's actually my teachers helper in the class.) Anyway, she blew me off, by not even responding. Now the funny thing is that about 2 years ago I would have been heart broken, and looking at the bottom of a vodka bottle for pleasure while watching threesome porn online. But now, I didn't even blink an eye. I just brushed it off like a night of bad sex. (It happens to everyone.)
Now I think that one of the most important parts is handling rejection because it's related to your self-esteem and confidence. It's knowing that there is going to be girl(s) out there who actually like you. And there are, trust me I know. I'm an asshole in real life, I tell people to fuck off, I rarely say sorry, I swear, I've slept my friend's sisters, best friends, boss etc... I drink a lot, don't call girls back, etc... But still I keep finding girls that like me for that.
And that's what I want people learn is that just because one girl doesn't like you, doesn't mean that there isn't another girl who will not like, there is! Trust me!
Don't think the Bad boy/asshole always gets the girl, no! There are some girls who like the bad boy/asshole, and some don't. You just have to find the girls that like your type and they will come in giant waves.
Any else has tips to help people with self-esteem and rejection, post that shit!
Cheers Bros!

I worship my women. The girls that weren't molested as children, have never been in abusive relationships, aren't drowning alcoholics eat that good guy shit up. Which makes me feel good about me and them. I'd imagine if you're an asshole, you probably think the girls that are attracted to you are dirt.

Did you TALK to this girl or did you send her a message? It's pretty odd that someone would totally ignore you when you ask for a date, women do NOT act like that because they aren't physically in a good position to piss men off. Anyway, that's a tiny, tiny rejection in any respect, I'm surprised you used to be sensitive enough to get hammered over that. Well, welcome to adulthood, you'll find the more girls you're dating at any one time, the less you'll even notice when one won't give you her number, tells you she has a boyfriend, and the more you'll accept these tiny missteps as the nothing they are.

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31 and still figuring it out.

Pretty much up to the last part, you missed the point about the post. It's about learning to handle the rejection, while building the confidence to deal with.
And yeah it's true that you learn to not even notice the rejection, but that doesn't happen over night, it takes a time for it to happen, this is advice people new to the game. It's not about my idea of girls or the types of girls.

If you're worried about people "missing the point", you should cut out all the other things you threw in there, then, right? Anyway, least I replied, that keeps you thread alive anyway.

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31 and still figuring it out.

Thanks bud. But I don't care about keeping my thread alive. I just simply want to pass on, what i have learnt to people who don't know. In essence I'm trying to make this world a better place.

I totally agree with you, it was something I thought of in the past.

If you act like nothing can disrupt your confidence and so on, you cannot go wrong really. Laugh it off kind of attitude.

Although the way you started a topic about a 'certain' girl, tends to lean more towards the fact that you have been thinking about her and it has affected you.

On the cliched bad boy persona, it really needs to be nautral and not forced, bad boys don't really talk about themseleves beign bad boys and they don't try to improve as a bad boy either.

Best advice for the bad boy image, give the impression (or do so) of getting with women just for sex, but then open up more to your target girl. Makes them feel like it was their work then.

Just leave the arshole thing out, hard to get right with every girl.

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"I guess a little small talks in order here now."

"Do I look like a gentleman to you in this shirt and these pants?"

"I know you from some place."

Yeah, that is good advice.
I want to people to know that it takes time to develop the confidence to laugh something off.
As for the bad boy image. I agree with you for the most part, except that it shouldn't only be about girls, but the whole lifestyle since people would figure out that your only doing it for girls. For the lifestyle, a bad boy just does what he wants. If a bad boy wants to go to a certain club he goes there, he doesn't need a reason, just goes.
That sort of lifestyle works best for image and confidence.