im finding game tough going,ive done everything in my power to get them but cant ive done books seminars dvds gym clothing social circle etc..you name it and it has not worked.
I know that there are probably more techniques out there but i dont want to have to work anymore hard on the verbal attractiveness side when a dude whos handsome can just look and take her away one day when im exausted and my guard is down.
Im sick of having the best intentions only to have a girl say "your not what im looking for" "you should get a girlfriend""have a good night" "were lesbians" "my mans at home" or having to open sets and getting amoged etc
Ive seen the same with a friend he is short ethinic but is smooth with the lines but he has not closed a girl some are nice to him but he works his ass off opening but there is no success girls ive seen will even turn and ewww at him.But our other wing who has some looks gets opened by them.
I am not going to quit though, I just wish i had some validation to snowball from as all this effort is expensive and frustrating.
If I do get some level of game I wont be telling people watch this and this and youll win ,you might spend years and $$$ and still be going home alone each night with no girls chasing beside the unattractive girl from school on your facebook.
If anyone has genuinly made it beyond the scope of what was before game let me know what made the difference that changed it all..

read your post lots of good stuff ,ive been into personal developement for 12+years but forgot a good rule which is to not dish out my insecurity so generously and to recognise no situation is wholly good or bad, im also exactly where i need to be in life.I do recognise that my journey has been long and not as i'd expected but i can attract some girls and the ones that are attracted are the right girls.
bit of positive self talk there but its all good