How do you stop comparing yourself to others?



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 20, 2010 12:38 pm 
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I just want to stop thinking shit like if my macking abilities are better than my friends or if i'm better looking. How do you just do it for the pleasure and stop myself with others?

I'm sure the inner game guys here have this state of mind so could you please explain to me how you get it?


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Just generaly get in the frame of mind that everything you do, no matter what, is better then anyone you know. lie to your self so that you actully think it, but dont over do it and look like an asshole, if you belive your better then you will be.

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You're currently enthralled with your new knowledge, and it's natural to be a bit arrogant about it. That will fade in time though. Pick-up isn't everything. After you've done it for a while, it will be just another part of life.

I remember when I finally learned this stuff late in college. I was so excited with all the hook-ups and thought I was on top of the world. To guys who'd been naturals since high school, I probably seemed pretty silly. Like why is this guy so focused on something I've done for many years now.


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Easy - stop allowing external factors to affect you.

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I used to be like this too. I used to think that my buddies who bagged chicks were the guys to look up to and I tried to copycat their personalities, thinking it would help me bag chicks as well. It took me a while to realize that this wasn't the right approach to building confidence. Its funny, because after I developed more and more confidence, I started to see mistakes in my buddies methods of getting chicks and see that they're not the big mack daddies I once thought they were.

The best starting point in building confidence is looking deep within yourself and understanding who you are, what you believe in, what your likes and dislikes are.


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