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PostPosted: Fri Nov 26, 2010 6:41 pm 
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Thanks for taking the time and reading this, i appreciate any comment.

I'm 19 years old and have hit a wall in my life when it comes to woman. I feel that I can be getting with alot more girls but something is stopping me. I'm going to school currently and have just picked my major. I have been talking to a couple girls in school this year and i dont have a problem talking to them, flirting, and joking around. I feel like I rely too much on these girls because i dont talk to any other girls. I simply want to be in an intimate relationship and it feels like this is taking forever to happen. I've talked to my friends about how i feel about being alone and having this need for a connection with a woman. They tell me not to worry about it and focus on school, but I want to have this handled so I'm not alone still a couple years from now. I'm just having a hard time shifting my focus to more important things in life, and also being more successful with woman. What should I focus on so I dont feel alone, so i can be able to get that intimate relationship, and build a strong future for myself?

Once again, thanks for taking the time to read this, your help is very appreciated.


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 29, 2010 3:16 am 
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Thanks for taking the time and reading this, i appreciate any comment.

I'm 19 years old and have hit a wall in my life when it comes to woman. I feel that I can be getting with alot more girls but something is stopping me. I'm going to school currently and have just picked my major. I have been talking to a couple girls in school this year and i dont have a problem talking to them, flirting, and joking around. I feel like I rely too much on these girls because i dont talk to any other girls.
Then don't talk to them and start talking to others.
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I simply want to be in an intimate relationship and it feels like this is taking forever to happen.
Well course...relationships can go to 2 ways, you rush into it- not being aware of yourself, meaning she probaly isn't and it'll turn out to be hell. Or you actaully know who you are fully and the type of person you'd be attracting would be like that also- hence you can compromise and theres no drama. Things that are good are worth fighting and waiting for.

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I've talked to my friends about how i feel about being alone and having this need for a connection with a woman. They tell me not to worry about it and focus on school, but I want to have this handled so I'm not alone still a couple years from now. I'm just having a hard time shifting my focus to more important things in life, and also being more successful with woman. What should I focus on so I dont feel alone, so i can be able to get that intimate relationship, and build a strong future for myself?
First you need to be comfortable being alone, 2nd your friends are right, 3rd..you want this issue handled then start handling yourself- relationships are a reflection of you. 4th you keep talking of woman...from where your coming from the most you'll get is a girl, woman are a different category dude- and you need to be a man to be in that category. 5th to thinking your value as a person/getting in a relationship is going solve everything for you..if anything unless your ready it'll tear you apart.

That said..if your ready to do the work to be ready for one & in the process do whatever it takes to grow into your best self. Then heres a link

core-values-of-a-man-vt74322.html


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