Hey peeps,

I'm a ginger haired guy. I know lots of people make ginger jokes and stuff and I often find them funny but lately it seems like every time I hear one of these jokes on the radio or tv it hurts my confidence because I think that the next time I go out, when a girl I hit on sees my ginger hair shes going to be reminded of that. I usually am very outgoing and I believe the ginge makes me unique to some extent. But it seems like its become a negative attribute being a ginger and all. Also I have this thought that even if a girl is keen she may think her friends will rip her off about getting with a ginger. This comes from when just the other day I heard a girl at varsity comment how out of the whole club there were two gingers and her friend got with both. Then the person she told this to and herself started cracking up. Now when I go out I'm starting to get this low self esteem and I don't want it to kill my game before its even begun.

Any response is appreciated,
Cheers,
Tigz

So pretty much your saying that your game with girls is affected b/c you know of ginger jokes out there that may make them not like you....? Well pretty much I would just not elt it affect me and use it to my advantage. If you go into situatons thinking you will already fail....then you already fail. Seriously though, dude they really dont care your a ginger.

im not ginger but i see how it is. i saw a simpsons episode a while ago where they made fun of a ginger for no reason, kinda pissed me off. honestly what mlax said is it. dont let it affect you. people dont actually go around laughing at gingers. iv never had anyone talk to me about this funny looking ginger guy they saw. if your outergame is good you have nothing to worry about. if its not good, its the first thing you need to get in order because i do think it will work against you more than other people but overall you should ignore it.

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