Finally met a girl i really like and we've started a relationship, which i didnt think i wanted but it really works.

Except...my girlfriend is really friendly with everyone. Guys that clearly want to sleep with her text her all the time and she is friendly with them, she tells them she's with me but she still continues to talk to guys that want to sleep with her. I trust her and i know she wouldnt do anything but I find it insulting that she has these other guys chasing her, and she seems to enjoy it, when she's got me.

And it's eating me up. I find myself checking her phone and going through her messages.

She gives way more to the relationship than i do, always wants to see me and is clearly into me but why does she continue to entertain these guys?

Should i confront it or just face up to the fact that she's flirty and too trusting of people, be an alpha and not pay any attention, and realise that she's the one sleeping with me, not the other guy?

Feel like i'm melting into an AFC.

Any advice?

from what i read she seems pretty trust-worthy if she investing in you, i know what you mean though i have an ex like that. just talk to her about it if its bothering you, shes ur gf she should understand

Isn't it her friendly, outgoing personality part of what you liked (among other things)? If so, and if you succeed in getting her to stop, she'll just be subduing her very nature... Which will result in both of you being unhappy in the end.

Instead, be sure of yourself, and know that you are keeping her satisfied and entertained, then the other guys won't matter to her. Stay strong, stay alpha. She choose you for a reason.

Thanks both, you're right - it just bugs me so much as I really like this girl, and it annoys me that im being so AFC about it.

dam im like in the same f`king boat...sigh.not exactly, but sort of...

Just focus on what you do. Be the Alpha Male, that's why she is attracted to you. If you keep that up, you will be fine. Just be your best self mate.