| Now before I tell you what I did to loose the fear of approaching, I have to state something.
AA never, ever, ever, ever, ever goes away. EVER...
Your mind will always be slightly afraid of approaching, your always thinking about whether shes going to blow you out, whether your going to fumble your words, whether you smell bad... IT DOESNT MATTER.
their is always some minute detail that is going to give you atleast the tiniest bit of anxiety before approaching, its just natural and it cannot be taken away completely.
What you can do, to make yourself better at approaching is reduce the AA. There is a way to train your mind, into not believing, but understanding and trully knowing that approaching and opening aint shit.
This is the answer:
23 days ago i found demonic confidence, it is an online audio book by lucas west that trains you subconciously into understanding that you can approach anybody anywhere anytime.
the course is 21 days long, i am currently on day 16, but have had to postpone... because I really dont want to fail my finals in a few days
16 days ago, I was a guy who had approached... 10 girls? max.
Now I can approach anybody, any ammount of people. I dont feel scared.
Anybody out their who has a problem with AA, this course should be compulsory for you, and if you can already approach fairly well...this is your answer for godlike approach mode :L.
3 weeks to change your life forever... months worth of progress into 21 days, seems to good to be true.
If you do download the course, stick to it and do not listen ahead, infact do not read anything about this course online until you have completed it.
If you have any questions feel free to drop me a PM.
Otherwise, peace and goodluck
jazz (:
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