Hey guys,

I wanted to share this info with you, it helped me alot dealing in general with woman and dating. So if it helped me, it might also help you .

I found this was very usefull dealing with my scarcity problems. I would txt a girl immediatly after a date or when i met her, which i found out i only get less attraction from it. But if i approach with the mentality of i don't care if i have success or not, or i go in with the expectations that i will get rejected i have alot more success, girls can read and sense body language much better then men can.

While interacting with woman, think like, yes this can be my girl altough i don't need her to be happy in my life (fake it till you make it ) and if i lose her, i will meet a new and maybe better girl. (this will also bring out your ability to risk losing her, which is a good thing) This sounds easy, but when ur hartrate is up and u are blinded by good feelings it get's harder to not fall back in the "i'll contact you 7 times a week period"

(tip: only use if you are approaching, they don't come to you like you might have noticed )

blah, not sure this was usefull to anyone, but wanted to share anyway let me know...

if i approach with the mentality of i don't care

This mentality goes a long way my friend.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Yea, ur right, i mean not goal orientated, not care of what the outcome of the approach is

Exactly, but a lot of men don't know how to do that- because if you tell your mind "Don't care"; it'll care about not caring! So you see you can't 'not care' by conscious effort in the moment, but instead only by removing the things your mind cares about. So i think your spot on!

If i could just add to this as well, the perfect mentality for me is one: thinking and looking at the fact that you don't need this one woman at all, (the point you made) and two: looking also at how much you suffer because you do think you need this one girl. The last point will inspire you to be more proactive in the way you think, which i feel is just as important.