Hey i need some help on who i should trust, i have trusting issues with people these days because of something that happened in the past.
Ive learned from it but now it seems like everyone just wants to bring up the past like their not over it and it really frustrates me when they talk about it. I have accepted and understood my past but when some people mention things about my past it confuses me because their always hiding in the bushes and never get straight to the point.

Im not just talking about my family, co-workers and friends, im talking about the whole community i live in or any random person i meet.
The strangest thing is when i do talk to people out of town(whom i dont know) it seems like they know me and all we talk about is psycology seriously is this just my psyche trying to show me the way or is this just me being dillusional?
Because its people like this that stops me from trusting them, any suggestions?

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Three Types of Players:
1) Those who doesn't know whats happening
2) Those who watch what happens
3) Those who make it happen

You have two options my man.

1) Tell whoever it is that brings up your past that you'd rather talk about something else, and be firm and tell them that you don't give a flying fuck about it anymore. Tell it to their face: every one person you tell this to, ten people will know; it's a small town after all. Slowly people will stop talking about it.

2)Move away from the town. I've lived in a small town and I hate the claustrophobic environment it makes. This may sound ludicrous - but you need to live in a place thats comfortable for you, not where you don't have a comfort zone for yourself.

Good luck.