i know two good ways of boosting your egos and i don't think your going to be too happy about them but once you try them they work and it makes you want to open more sets so here they are:1.i read an article recently about how when you bottle your emotions it bulids up well guess what it works the same way for pick up say you picked up a hot girl instead of telling everyone about it keep it to yourself and let it bulid inside of you it really helps trust me and it'll boost your ego cause the thing is when you tell your best buddy or whoever your removing the importance from it so keep it in and let it bulid.

2.the second one your not going to like at all but we all know it works.
DON'T MASTURBATE. When you have the urge it helps you want to go up and open sets.

I heard about the no masterbating thing before so there must be some truth behind that.

The part about not telling anyone of ur successes is one of the best ways to build confidence about urself. Fact is, ive thought about this before but it just seemed a little farfetched or just a personal thing to mark it as good advice, but now i c its tru for others as well

The second part...ummm, im not too sure if that rly works....doesnt that just make u more frustrated ?


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Wow as for A) i kinda find that so true now...

as for B) Think it was on Mystery's DVD [forgot which one] he said dont jerk off until you get a gf... think it helps increase sexual tension? I think it works but have yet to see a difference?

there's also mind set, like now going in and getting random strangers isn't even a challenge anymore...but the way you see urself greatly affects the way people see you...and one thing to do...it works is, you gotta play the facade where you come off as someone who doesn't allow ANYTHING to phase them, its wut me and slickz call the "don't give a fuck" aura...and it's more to help urself out, because eventually you realise that you shudn't give a fuck and the fear of rejection and whatnot automatically goes away.

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soo true

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to boost my ego i think the best think you can do is to tell others about your sucess and learning curves, think about it, this community is driven by the share of thoughts and experiences, if everyone kept stuff to themselfves, this process or life change would have never occured for most of us. when we get older this will be more important and obvious to us, just like your girl mistakes are now so obvious.

the way i do it:-learn,
- take time to think about it and plan it out into a routine and tell people about it <-- this way im forced to move further in my progress
-test it out, try picturing everything that happened <---- tell people about it
- knowing your mistakes now, build one last detailed routine of this in your head, and bring yourself "to live by it" <---heres what works best for me, i tell people about it, hell i actualy teach a few people, its a win win situation, im getting better and so are the people listing to our theory.

whatever im writing here ive probably seen somewhere before, its my way of giving credit to whoever the contributors are.

love and peace

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The no masturbation tech is good and teaches you disipline...

Think about it, you set a standard, and well you try to close as much as you can, cuz you don't really wanna be wacking it off all night...

So it kinda keeps you in check, know that you have the ability to game and use it to yer advantage...

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.the second one your not going to like at all but we all know it works.
DON'T MASTURBATE. When you have the urge it helps you want to go up and open sets.

i was going to post up that question.. whether it actuals stifles ya drive to approach girls. i reckon it does water ya drive down.

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it's a way of living !

The great master mystery tells us not to masturbate because we have to feel the need and that way to overcome approach anxiety.
If you don't have approach anxiety issues, not masturbating is a problem from my point of view.
U ask why
Because if u don't masturbate you will feel like "i really need to fucK" and girls may see that. It's called needy attitude of mind.

Non masturbating lowers approach anxiety.
...however it fucks up ur game( or ur "i dont give a fuck aura")

And I hate when people misunderstood why GM Mystery says that or that. Ive seen some people on the forum thinking of A3 as a way to lower her value LOL.

Any criticism? No? K.

I like the part about keeping successes to yourself. Usually people that we most admire in our lives have accomplished a great deal, but rarely brag about their successes.

Not masturbating, I see as having two problems. First a person may have the tendency to lower their standard in the girls they approach out of their desperation for sex. Second, I've had some awful sex (my fault) when I didn't get off for a while. Talk about being a one minute man...

mystery talks about jerking only once a week to keep you alert and looking for women..I agree with this way of thinking 100% when you jerk it everyday you sedate yourself and dont really care about meeting women..

By the way he says this in the game..

lol go again after your first blow dude..comon!!

I just wanted to add to this post, in particular about bottling up emotions. Be careful with this as you do not want to make a habit of it, it can result in various explosions of energy. Which in and of themselves, are not necessarily harmful, but an general energy that is too high can be a bit much when opening.

Just remember, you need to open sets at a slightly higher level of energy than the set, if you open a set and their energy is quite low, don't go in full guns blazing.

One of my wings (fucking mad guy!) has sometimes opened a set with too high energy and been told that he is arrogant. All of my wings have high energy, but it is about meeting the same energy level, being perceptive of the groups energy.

One of the sets I opened a few weeks ago 5 set, four girls one guy. I had the group for a while, target and all. However, my energy was too high, so I had to leave and open another set, keep that one for later when my energy had dropped.

This is definetly about calibration, matching energy. I like to look at it as the brightness control on the picture. Visualise the scene in your mind and use the energy level to gauge the brightness, if your energy level is too high, turn the brightness down to bring your inner thought process down, if your energy is too low, bring your brightness control up to match it. It can take some practice.

In which case I definetly recommend reading Introduction to NLP.

On a final note, if you are going to do the no Masturbation trick, a cold shower before going up will help that dramatically, so you don't come across to women as a walking penis.

Keep it going!

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