Hi guys! I've been watching Authentic Man Program (Power of presence) DVD set lately and it struck me. I feel that's probably the thing I was looking for. Anyways, there is one problem; they say (and I believe them) that I have to own my space. You know, the "alpha male" thing. And that the space should be big, that I can control my presence, etc.

Well, I'm kinda afraid to do it. Here, in my town, there is a huge number (probably most guys) who are "macho lords" that are basically waiting for an excuse to fight. Yes, the town (and whole country, for that matter) is uncivilised and I have feeling that they are just looking for a fight. Also, there is a group of people with nothing better to do than trying to find me and fight me every saturday (and friday) night out and to be honest, I feel afraid.

Is there any way I can be helped? Or should I just wait few months untill I move back to Prague (where people are normal) and start practicing my presence there? Because I feel that these "machos" will attack me as soon as they notice me - which is, through the presence thing, much more likely to happen.

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You don't know the future, you can't change the past. The only thing that matters is THE CURRENT MOMENT.

I have the same damn exact fear man. I got jumped in a club about 3 months ago for no fucking apparent reason. I was just having the time of my life and these motherfuckers who jumped me didnt like it. So as im dancing they start talking shit to me and im like I dont want no problems guys. Then they avoid me for a good 5 seconds then next thing I know im on the ground.

One of the guys punched me in the face while the other one kicked out my knees. It was a fucking bitch man. Everytime now I go back to that club I fear of being myself and fear having a good time because apparently last time that was the reason I got jumped. Everytime I go in there I feel scared, fearful, and afraid and its fucking up my game big time! I remember I used to pull girls easily on the dance floor but after that I am horrible. I dont feel as strong and confident as I did before. It feels as if a piece of me was taken.

Id suggest maybe getting a few of these macho friends yourself and befriending them. Be cool to them ask how shit going down and shit like that. Be cool. Theyll eventually see your a cool guy and will befirend you. Or next time you go out just go out with a group of friends. But for me getting over this fear and uneasiness when im at that club is just so overwhelming sometimes man.

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Cut the shit, time to fuck.