What books would you guys reccomend on inner game that help you develop as a person self esteem wise, confidence wise, etc? Im not talking about books that just tell you a shitload of information on why we act the way we act such as Richard Dawkins selfish gene. Dont get me wrong but thats a really good book. But it doesnt get to the core of us trying to develop our self esteem and well being.

Im looking for books that will improve my overall self. Mainly my self esteem and confidence. I recently just got a book called healing your emotional self by beverly engel. It gets into the reasons why we feel the way we feel and how to get and overcome the obstacles that lead us to low self esteem. Pretty much im looking for shit that will help me overcome my emotional, self esteem, and confidence issues. I tried approaching hundreds of women but my confidence always goes down and isnt consistent. I want to become consistent and actually start feeling alot better about myself.

Any of you have any reccomendations? I just recently finished a new earth by tolle and I felt a consciousness shift in myself. I felt better about my self. Im looking for shit like that. Spiritual, non spiritual I dont care. Anything thats going to make my self esteem and confidence grow is pretty much what im looking for. This will not only help me out but alot of the other guys on the forum who have these issues as well. Please share your insights and books.

Thanks!

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Jlax i believe that for when i first started in this community and actually started to get good at it was when i got rid of my 'Limited Belief' and changed my mind set to 'I am the prize'.

When you see a hot girl and you want to approach, i will look at her and think "hmm she's attractive, i'm going to go over there and see if she's cool or not"
Now as you start walking you've already put yourself in momentum, use anything to open it doesnt really matter (aslong as you've created Impact and delivered it well, in which you would of because the moment you've seen her you've conditioned your mind to- "i am the prize") because whatever you said in that first 30 seconds of interaction a woman doesnt really remember anyway ! Its what you say after that counts.

Jlax i have read tons of books but i have learnt confidence comes through great success . Any area you find success in, you need to impliment in your game

My best Advice - "I AM THE PRIZE" mindset

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thats some great advice patranova im def gonna keep that mindset...jlax a book that really helped me with my self confidence and pretty much my mood in general was David Burns - Feeling Good its a great book...it goes in to depression but after that its about self esteem and self confidence...check it out it helped for me

you can download a book by David X for like 5 bucks on the interent. just google that.

its underated but it really helped me

Thanks guys! WD I was just recently at barnes and noble and I saw that book you were talking about. I think its something called like the new mood therapy. But I dont remember seeing feeling good. Or maybe I did.Anyways, Ill definiteley check it out. Right now im on a book by Beverley Engel called Healing your emotional self. I just got it yesterday and am 100 pages in. This book is really good and is really building my self esteem. I feel alot better about myself. I walk with alot more energy and am noticing more positive thoughts than negative ones. The exercises are also very good. ITs a book designed to heal the emotionally abused in which it builds your self esteem and confidence.

I just bought like another 3 books today. One of them called Tao Te Ching, The prophet, and the dissapearance of the universe. After the im done with the book im reading now ill start doing shadow work. I specifically have a book on it called shadow dance by david richo. Im like also 100 pages in. The past 2 days I finished 1 book and am almost halfway through the other. I still have like 5-6 books to read before starting college. Then I think I should be ready. If you guys need more self development books or a great website on inner game then check this out.

http://www.stevepavlina.com/personal-de ... -books.htm

Heres the forum;

http://www.stevepavlina.com/forums/

Probably one of the best forums out there about inner game and spirituality and self development. Definiteley check it out.

Peace

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