Hey guys, I wasn't sure what part of the forum to put this on, so I decided here was the best.

As I said, I'm only 17, I've been practicing the game for close to two years now, Its helped immensely in my life when I was in a hard time and needed to get control of myself. Since I'm only 17, I don't go mastering routines and sets and such. I simply use methods and ideologies used by fellow PUA's in order to feel more confident around women, however I have a large sticking point.

I am completely and totally 100% green. Never had your idealistic first kiss,bj,girlfriend,etc. As i've said game has helped a lot to get me where I am today, but I feel as if this fact about me severely cripples what I am capable of, and I am unsure of how to deal with it. I could really care less about being a virgin afterall I'm only 17, however I would like to know when to go for it. Style in particular talks about a shift in energy in the air, the moment when he just goes for it...and most people do. I find since I've never had the experience to begin with, I tend to miss it, or not go about it the right way.

Anyway there is my problem. The game has helped lots in my interactions with all people, and since being introduced to it, my interactions with girls have been great, I just don't know when to get to the first step really, I can open but not close in essence.

Your question is pretty vague to anyone to help you.

You are asking how should you proceed in having sex?

or are you asking how should you proceed in getting a first kiss?

you said next step but you werent clear on what step you want.

Anyways, you are only 17. this is pretty "green behind the ears" so to speak, so dont worry about it too much.

Im 22 at a time, and the best advice I could give you if I could do things differently when I was 17 is I would just go have more fun that a 17year old can have.

Hang out with your friends, laugh and banter. Play football or soccer or tennis or take dance lessons.

Have fun as much as you can.

if you see a girl that you like, go and talk with her. But have in mind just to make friends with her.

make as many friends as you can, be YOU, and things just happen to you. You will meet a girl that will like you and you will like her.. you will kiss and you will have sex..

your next step should be persistance. Keep doing what you already do, without any goals.

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I used the game to full effect in high school. I believe that the girls I had in high school have been the best in my 21 year old life, including college times.

You're confused about how to use the game techniques you've learnt in a closed social setting like a high school, and I can also sense a little bit of anxiousness in your writing (not anxiety..two different things).

Two things that may help you out in closing:

1) Remember that there's nothing to be embarrassed about 'going for it'. The girl you mack on may be just as inexperienced, curious and excited as you are. Go for it, it's high school, there's nothing that could go wrong except you learning from any mistake you made. I think that if you subconsciously do what you believe and want, you won't ever feel like something's gonna go wrong, and hence you minimize your risk of mistakes.

2)Close indirectly to remove any sort of awkwardness. Sometimes, the girl may just be hanging out with you because you're a friend, and nothing else. Sometimes she may want to get with you, and other times it could be anything. Approach the situation with 'total control'. Kiss her on the cheek and see her response. If she smiles and likes it, kiss her on her lips. If she's like 'What was that for?', be witty and say something like 'For being a great friend' or whatever. Always be witty about what you do, because it puts things on a lighter note.

I based myself around those two rules in high school, because it not only eliminates embarrassment, it also gives you a vague confidence that you are doing what you feel is right. Nobody is gonna call you a pervert for trying to get physical. Free yourself and make these some of your best years. You're 17 and have quite a way to go..might as well make the ride better.

I am an old dude...30...I will give you the same advice my father gave me.

"Wear a rubber,"

Thanks dad...sob

I would like to add a little input which I have discovered in pickup:

This shift in the energy that Style talks about. I think it many times only lasts for a second. I'm still like you kind of, I miss it sometimes and I go on talking endlessly to a girl and finally go in to close and fail miserably.

If a girl is in the phase of liking you but not being sure if you are the "right guy". Her logic and emotions are in a constant battle. Logic dictates to her she should not let herself indulge in hedonistic pleasure and save herself for the right guy,( this is what society has taught her is the right way) and her emotions say that she should fuck you. The conflict usually leaves a girl talking to you, to get to know you better, but on guard for any advances you might make towards her. Momentarily, I believe, the emotions break through, maybe just for a split second of the interraction. There will be prolonged eye contact or something of the sort and you will get that feeling. That's when you go for it, as fast as humanly possible because the window is very limited. Don't feel bad if you miss it, I think it requires a quick reaction time. the more girls you talk to the more you will notice signs. They are very subtle and it takes some social tact.

One way I practiced is I would say hi to any girl that made eye contact with me as she passed by, even for a split second. it improves that kind of reaction time.