[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BFoska43IFQ[/youtube]

The issue of inner game is not just another subject in PUA, it's the central one. Inner game, or the content of everything that goes on in your head, has EVERYTHING to do with how good your game is. Inner game is more then just feeling good about yourself, it has much, much MUCH more.

I've been in the community for a long time, I've completed a bachelors in psychology, I'm a certified master Neuro-linguistics practitioner, certified hypnotherapist and many more awesome stuff. I've also taken up teaching and mentoring people in the arts of seduction and I'm working my career in the direction of motivational speaking and changing this world for the better. More information is available on my website.

In this thread I'm not only going to answer all your inner game questions, but I'll take any kind of questions (and try to keep the focus on inner game), but not only will I be answering it on youtube videos. May the questions begin![/youtube]

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Anyone can walk into a bar and pick up a random girl.
The trick is to make the experience unforgettable to her.
A real PUA will make every women he encounters feel like she experience something once in a lifetime.

thanks for making this thread.
The last two months i have read shitloads about inner-game and stuff...
How do you handle stuff when someone have been mocking on you, and you just cant stop focusing on it? To not let them influence on what you do..

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wNoLKW2SO-I[/youtube]

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Anyone can walk into a bar and pick up a random girl.
The trick is to make the experience unforgettable to her.
A real PUA will make every women he encounters feel like she experience something once in a lifetime.

Hey man wats up? I have a little problem I was in a 1 year relationship with a girl totally infatuated with her and now we broke up. I'm kinda trying to use this as a drive to do pua and like game alot of woman but it's not totally solving the problem. I'm still hurting deep inside. I'm new to pua and stuff but can sorting out my inner game help me out with this? and what can I do to start achieving this?

Hey man thanks for doing this.

I have a problem where I struggle with my inner game. Im a very negative person, my dad has been like this his whole life so I think its in my genes that I look at things half empty rather than full. Im not blaming entirely on him, but growing up around that kind of negativity cant be good for me.

Im in college now but during HS, I hit puberty late and was always short and took alot of shit and got used to it. While I never defended myself verbally or physically, sometimes the insults would get to me convincing me to have no confidence in myself. Due to this, girls never seemed attracted to me and I just learned to deal with it.

However, Ive been alone for too long and its really getting to me. Im in college and am still a virgin and suffer from social anxiety. I got so used to people ignoring me, bustin my balls that I have not really developed a personality at all. I struggle with starting/keeping conversations going and overall just being someone interesting to talk to. Im very shy and it takes me awhile to open up.

However, the times I do get the confidence to actually go out with my friends to the parties/bars, when I get drunk, not all of it, but most of my mental problems and negativity, low self esteem goes away. Its not like i turn into mr confident all of the sudden, but the negative talk in my mind goes away and I really dont hate myself at all. However, when Im sober, its the exact opposite, this is all I can think about (self loathing) and finding all my faults criticizing myself.

To be honest, I really dont enjoy drinking that much, but when I do have my good nights, my drunkself wonders how I can hate myself so much when things arent really as bad as they seem.

Im wondering if you could help me with some advice on how to train and discipline my mind to stop being so negative all the time. Also, what do I need to do to, so that when Im sober, I can have the same views, confidence as when Im buzzed? What are some other tips to just get some confidence in me generally?

My friends say Im easy to read, and while I dont go out much, I guess it's obvious that I dont look/feel comfortable, and since girls are much better at reading us than we them, how can I solve this problem so that I wont get blown off immediately if I do decide to approach.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQeLYjR8Vy4[/youtube]

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http://www.solomonseagal.com

Anyone can walk into a bar and pick up a random girl.
The trick is to make the experience unforgettable to her.
A real PUA will make every women he encounters feel like she experience something once in a lifetime.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GpuzVqIey3w[/youtube]

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http://www.solomonseagal.com

Anyone can walk into a bar and pick up a random girl.
The trick is to make the experience unforgettable to her.
A real PUA will make every women he encounters feel like she experience something once in a lifetime.

Heya White Rose..I got a question for you.

You see, I'm an 18 year old who, after reading up about it, seems to be suffering from the "nice guy" syndrome quite alot. And the thing is, I've been like this ever since my girlfriend dumped me around 2 years ago (And we were only together for 2 months) Even with that though, I sinked into a deep, deep depression and altough I've recovered from it immensely since then, I still have alot of trouble getting my self-esteem and inner game sorted.
The problem is that I really can't stand the fact that everyone around me, all my friends and everyone around my age all seem to get their mates and whatnot, except me, this is unbelievably frustrating to me and I just don't know what to do about it, I hate going out and the whole bar/night life with a burning, burning passion, so I don't really meet many people..just occasionally at party's from friends or stuff like that.
I'm not really determined to become a PUA or anything, I just want to get my inner game sorted..But I don't know how to. I always do the things I like, and I still do, but my self-esteem just never gets any better and on top of that I don't have the faintest clue on how to handle women, I've read some books on pickup but I never find them helpful at all, I just want to be me, not some pua who knows how to smooth talk, but I just can't figure out how to be myself and to be happy with who I am..

Due to technical difficulty I'll have to text write this one.

The best and most powerful advice ever given in PUA is just be yourself. The problem is that most people don't know who their self is. Obviously your self does not include going to parties and bars and night clubs, so focus on the things you DO like and ARE passionate about and the most important thing is- be proud of it! Passion is charismatic, and it is infectious. You don't need to be a superstar body building jet pilot to get chicks, but it is nice if you are happy with your life.
Being a PUA is not about smooth talking girls into bed or being super cool or super rad. It's about being comfortable with who you are and what you do and being able to live the life you actually want.
Now for homework, go and look in a mirror and find 10 things you love about yourself.

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Anyone can walk into a bar and pick up a random girl.
The trick is to make the experience unforgettable to her.
A real PUA will make every women he encounters feel like she experience something once in a lifetime.