Hey we all fail and sometimes it can be discouraging but I think it would help if we could all share our biggest fails and learn from others and share common experiences to help us get better. I feel bad when I fail but it helps when I know I'm not alone. I'll think a bit on my biggest fail with PUA.

I loved a girl because she talked me out of my current relationship. I tried to go for her, but I didn't have enough confidence. Eventually I built up the courage to tell the new girl Meredith how I felt. I did it in such a negative way, it was almost impossible for her to say she cared for me. I was weak in self esteem and self image. 6 months later I called meredith back and asked her advice. We became friends again, and she has been my strongest assest. I still love her, but I love myself now too. So it doesn't hurt me that she isn't with me. I am happy.

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Walk Hard

Cool, thinking about it I can't come to mind with a BIG fail rather more like a lot of lame fails strung together.

My lamest fail so far is still with my first gf.

I had my first gf at 15 which is later than average but ok in my opinion and lost her after a month. Dated again 6 months later (after her contacting me) and dated again for 6 months and that was it. She dumped me because she said I

"followed her around like a puppy all the time between class, and was always around her when I can" (I never saw her out of high school since she was busy all the time).

This was way way back like in 2004 before I even knew of "the game" and I was needy and insecure despite being built with a six pack and pretty attractive, I was just sheltered and didn't know how to socialize with girls.

Funny thing this girl called me up earlier this year and wanted me to visit her for 3 days, so I drove 4 hours to visit her for the weekend and most of it was making out. I could have F closed her but she was still a virgin and said she's waiting till marriage ect which I actually support. So I was a fling but I didn't care really either since I was looking for a fling too.

Most of the girls who had balls to tell me I was attractive and they had a crush on me were the overweight ones(not just a little), and I had to kindly reject and felt bad doing it. I felt hopeless.

As for BIG fail, I've been told to "fuck off" at a college party by a drunk chick while opening, but I was too buzzed and had 3 chicks dancing with me and conversing with me an hour later to really care. I could have F closed a chick too since she was buying a lot of my routines but didn't want to since I'm looking more for a LTR.

That was a 2 years ago when I just heard of "the game" and PUA stuff and tried it out and it worked. Since then I've fell out of it busy with work and school, and am just coming out of depression and stress and getting back into the groove again or trying to.

Essentially starting over again and refreshing my previous knowledge.


In the coming months I'll probably have a bigger fail to post.

Firstly everyone fails in life. Warren Buffet recently admitted that he made bad investment decisions. Donald Trump failed in the early 90s, but bounced back. CEOs of Investment Banks have made mistakes, so have presidents of countries. Name me someone who hasn't made mistakes ?

My biggest Flop(s) Fails:

*Treating my last girl friend crappy playing jealousy games, Lol, resulting in me getting dumped since I told her to "DUMP ME THEN BITCH!" haha.

*Attempting to straight up hook-up with Ex last mentioned, Fail

*Last girl in the club, exchanged numbers, she never texts back. Fail (altho this is common)

*trying to hook up with the same girl from a 1 night stand, Fail, loolllolllll


So yeah, get use to Failure, always correct your mistakes and take mental notes. Boost your confidence after screwing up too, some mistakes really suck. You really have to re-build your ego sometimes.

Tell yourself what you HAVE done well, focus on positive.

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-- Jay --

I can't forget...about this one girl I met. She was...exactly what I wanted in a girl and... she actually likes me.

It was too good to be true. For some reason, I keep thinking of reasons why I don't like her. What the fuck was I doing?! I ended up not doing anything at all. I fucking hated myself. This one time and this girl is forever etched in my memory.

She's a reminder to me and what keeps me pushing forward.

Well my biggest failure in my opinion. Not quite as dramatic as the others but it's something worth remembering haha

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We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.

i found the perfect angel for me.. but i never showed any emotion that i did truly care for her. She had a heart attack and i was not there for her. She dumped my ass hard. I ended doing the sweetest things you can imagine, from writing her a love card to serenading her but nothing could match the pain i caused her. So if you love something, its best to let it free..but don't be stupid to get to that point or it will hurt like no other. I learned from my mistake and i know that although she rests in my heart i'll make another girl the happiest girl alive. Although now i am a compassionate confident person who accepts rejections, because i know it could be worse.

some comforting word..
people makes mistakes, and learn from them.
for those who dont make mistakes and learn are those that are alseep.