It seems being in the Army, the folks you work with are great at trying to help you DLV. In my opinion it seems most of the assholes here weren't hugged much as children. So every day, they attempt to say something to depress you.

For instance, always asking if "everything is ok?" or the ever famous, "How is Morale?"

Well shit it was fine until you had to ask.

Two people I work with really get on my nerves, one is the AMOTG (who would be the NCOIC) the other is this ugly ass female who thinks she's a HB10 (she has a big ass nose and a bowl hair cut and comes out to a rough HB6 at best).

This chick, gets on my nerves because of her damn attitude. She acts like her shit doesn't stink and will let everyone know, but she's obviously very insecure on the inside. She also told me once, "Shut up, etc." I honestly would have made her cry had I had not been in the fucking Army (being in is really cramping my game, life and style and I hate it).

Also there is the excessive pats on the back, the attempts at trying to make you feel part of a team that in reality doesn't care. I hate fake BS, that's prob why this PUA stuff is a little hard, but I'm not giving up on that.

The things that really bother me are when this AMOTG likes to flaunt his position with women. He will often do this while downing anything you do, to include the childish use of making fun of your name, or explaining how much better at PT he is. Seriously, is this the fucking army?

I mean I don't expect to be told how great a person I am every damn day, sometimes some peace and quiet would be nice. (a nice cup of STFU)

I guess I don't know why this really affects me when I think about it, but one thing I know for sure is that suicide in this organization is still a problem. Along with all the other stuff (depression, PTSD, etc). I want to avoid all that, get back home and hopefully become a master at this PUA stuff.

Anyways on to the problem, how do I counter questions like, "Why do you look so tired?" or "Why do you look so sad?" or this other stupid shit that's almost like truisms designed to make you feel like shit when asked? It's no wonder morale here is absolutely FUBAR. I guess it's part of dealing with rejection.

Also, how do I DHV to these people here who usually think everyone is a "shitbag" unless they are Mr. Olympia?

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