First off let me say that at the time of these two incidents I was more a AFC than anything remotely close to learning the ways of the "trade". Had I known the power of the force, I would have done much better.

I was at this strib club in NC one night, and had been there a few times before. A "new" dancer named Candy had just came back from vacation and was performing there that night.

Immediately I was drawn to her, not sure why, but it's strange how attraction works. We talked for a few minutes after her routine, went to the back for a dance, then we sat at the bar for a few minutes had a few drinks. I asked her for her number the next time I saw her after the VIP room. She wrote it down and told me to stay in contact with her and informed me that she was leaving soon (as in going back to Ohio).

At the time I was so stupid I didn't know that could have been a major IOI. Anyways, I winded up calling her a few times, she answered finally, however she was crying and had informed me that she got in a car accident (my luck).

Anyhow back at the club for a third time, the DJ annouced that she did in fact get in a car accident (so she wasn't blowing me off). Anyways, nothing more came of the situation I eventually stopped trying to contact her, hell if I even have her number any more. Here's the thing:

I think I tried to put too much effort into this stripper. The 2nd stripper...

Kind of different story. I met her at a different club. Within 10 minutes of meeting her and taking her in the back for a dance, I was face down having her pussy for dinner. Now this one, I barely put any effort into, so I think she must have been drunk.

I guess I'm concerend about what exactly got the outcomes of both situations because it may be one the key things I need to understand when dealing with strippers (as far as how "hard" you should be trying).

Also, to add in my father was a natural, but I was way overly protected as a child I think this has also led to me snuffing out some of my natural game.

Any advice or info on what happened?

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More info on the 2nd stripper would be nice.

On a side note, my biological father was also a natural, to say the least, and I was overprotected as a kid too. In some ways, its encouraging to know that you have a natural in your gene patterns.

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Stormy: Being friendly to seek approval is needy. Being UNfriendly to "raise your value" is needy. Needy people depend on others' reactions.

Well shoot, the 2nd stripper didn't give me her name. She did say that she liked white boys, I guess that must have been the cue for me. I wasn't drunk at all and it just "happened". I leaned forward, kissed her kooch and then she grabbed my head and started to man handle me right there. I just remember the slight smell of alcohol on her breath. But man, she tasted like sweet butter. Anywho, I should go back and get her number, but she might not even remember who I am now! lol

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