Heya, my main problem right now when I am with girls is that I can never really close the deal sexually. I do alright talking and attracted them, but can never bring myself to push past that zone. Even if I am sure it could escalate, I just never seem to do it and end up hating myself after the fact, and even sometimes right as I see it happening. Like I'll be with a girl alone watching a movie in my room and my mind says 'This definitely should be happening, why are you not doing anything.' And I just kinda freeze up.

I am 16 and have kissed girls but never really made out or had sex or anything. I feel it's definitely an issue with my inner game which is strange because I feel like my self esteem is great other than this fact. I also portray a well together and confident guy, except for this. It's strange because I feel once I do move past that first great wall, it won't be an issue. I've been struggling with that fact for a few months now and am now reaching out to you guys because I just can't seem to do it on my own. I don't know what I am expecting as an answer, but I feel that I've tried to overcome this on my own and need some help from others. Any advice? :/