Another big piece of being a man is your ability to handle conflict in your life.

Conflicts all arround us. Wherever you go, there is a chance you will have a conflict with another person.

Youre standing in line and somebody passes to get in line infront of you. Conflict.
Youre driving your car and somebody hits you with his. Conflict.
A waiter doesnt treat you right. Conflict.
A police officer stops you and gets over his juristiction. Conflict.

Your life as a man is largely determined by your ability to solve conflicts and problems.

And your way of solving them can be bitching, complaining and throwing emotional tantrums or you can solve them by comming from your strenght, authenticity and wisdom.

A real man is a master at solving conflicts because of his basic understanding of the world. He has taken responsibility for himself and his actions. He takes care of things and thus his job is to keep himself and his family safe.

So how a real man handles conflict?

Lets say, somebody tries to get in line infront of him while waiting.

A real man knows, that he cant use violence, because he will go to jail. But from his understaning that he cant use violence comes great power. He knows, that he will defend himself if the guy attacks him, but violence is only the last option. And he commits himself no to use violence but other available resources.

But all of his power comes from knowing, that at the end, he can defend himself phisicly.

So he would say: Exuse me sir, I was here first, please get back in line.-- with total composure

But if you are affraid of the other guy, than you will be mad at him, and mad at the world because there is such injustice going on.. and you will keep quiet.


All of the power that a real man has, comes from his not fearing to die or to take a good beating.

But offcourse, the other guy might say back to you: O, and if I dont?

You can not offcourse chump him because of that, unless youre in highschool.

When you are in conflict, you have to realize that in this world everybody has a superior. Everybody.

So he might say: -Calls a securtiy guard.

And the conflict is solved.

Ive given you just an example of how to solve conflict.

When you can solve a conflict, a woman will feel attraction for you immediately.
Infact, a woman can see on you if you are able to solve conflict or not. And she can see that instantly.

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Great post Black fantom. Also, this has alot to do with your identity also. The more you say "No" to the things you dont prefer the stronger your identity is. You need to do things that YOU think are right. You need to do things that you prefer.
Once you say "No" to this and "Yes" to that you have a completely solid identity that no chick or guy can take a way from you. If a girl calls you out on being a douchebag or loser and you DONT have a solid identity BECAUSE you dont make decisons based on your preferences then guess what your gonna take comment and therefore part of your reality. BUT, if you have no problem saying "NO" to things you dont prefer and yes to things you do then you have a solid identity,belief, and confidence in WHO YOU ARE AS A PERSON. So guys, if your reading this the only way to create an unshakable identity is to have preferences. Say "No" to this and "Yes" to that.


Lets say your standing in line and a woman cuts you. You know its wrong but you dont do anything about it. Why? Because your not a MAN as Black fantom said. You yourself need to say "No" to that behavior no matter how uncomfortable and unpleasing it may be. Once youve done that and keep doing it you are gonna KNOW who you ARE as a person and nobodies opinion or criticism is gonna affect you. Ever. This is a proven system tat works 100% of the time. Also, if your really interested in skyrocketing your inner game you should check out Dr.Pauls MindOS system.