Warning: Newbie Here! Thanks for your input.

I've been single for a year and while I keep myself busy with work, the gym and sports... I have had a hard time going out and meeting women ever since I graduated college. Most of my buddies have moved away or are in relationships, so I lack people to sarge with.

I noticed my negative mind frame about a week ago after I stopped talking to this girl I was dating. Things went from good to bad in about four weeks. I let my guard down and became comfortable quickly which ended up pushing her away.

I recognize my mistakes and am eager to correct myself. What should I be concentrated on? Any quality material I should be reading?

When you say you let your guard down, what do you mean? And why does letting your guard down push her away do you think?

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I guess in the sense that I became comfortable to quickly. At first she was hanging on me like my girlfriend then she went MIA...

I was confused because we were supposed to go on a date last weekend (which she kept texting me the night before IOI's) Then the morning of, she told me that she was sick and that we should just do something low key. Which I ended up bailing because she was having flu symptoms.

The next week I did my own thing and waited for her to text me which she ended up doing last Wed. On Friday, we texted back and forth and I told her to call me when she was free in which I haven't heard from her since.

I texted her today so we'll see what happens...

Yea, you got inner problems, like every single guy I ever talked to. I guess I just have to accept this as a matter of fact...

Anyways, you needy insecure wussy.. Start with david deangelo material. That material goes deep and will give you a very, very solid foundation on your path.

Than go into techniques, swingcatt has some good programs.

Check out hypnotica and his stuff.. but take it easy.. one step at a time. Dont try to grab a mouth full because you are going to spit out everything.

Start with deangelo e-book, do the exercises, than move on to the next one.. and dont stop untill you get what you want.

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